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Thursday, April 19, 2018

Transitions- Parshat Tazria-Metzora/ Achrey Mot- Kedoshim 5778/ 2018


Insights and Inspiration
from the
Holy Land
from
Rabbi Ephraim Schwartz
"Your friend in Karmiel"
April 20th 2018 -Volume 8 Issue 26 5th Iyar 5778
Parshat Tazria-Metzora/Acharey Mos-Kedoshim
Transitioning
Transition; that’s the word that keeps passing through my mind during this pretty packed week and half. I personally haven’t undergone any major changes. I’m still working on getting comfortable with that new grandfather title and role. Rather I’ve been on the outside this week, an observer, a people-watcher, and perhaps even what our sages refer to as a maven or yode’ah Ha’itim- someone who watches and understands the different times, moments and transitions.
In truth it’s the right week for transitions as the Torah readings this week are different in America and Israel. In Israel we reading Acharey Mot and Kedoshim in America Tazaria Metzora. Both are double portions both are transitions.

I guess it started out watching my grandson have his pdiyon haben- the fascinating ceremony as he is redeemed by his parents from his sanctified level a s first born son, whose life belongs to Hashem in exchange for Hashem saving the Jewish first-borns when he killed the Egyptian ones. We wait 30 days until we do that, as the 30 day mark is when a child is in the clear of being at risk for neo-natal death. It is considered a viable birth. He has transitioned fully into the world of the living. And right away the first thing that we do focus on what his role will be in this world.
It doesn’t get more Jewish than that. A doctor? A lawyer? A Rabbi? The parents redeem him from the Kohen and dedicate him to this new world where they recognize that he has a role to fill, and that role interestingly enough is one that might take him out of the Temple and the service of the Kohanim, that he is otherwise been dedicated to.

In Israel this past Shabbos we read Parshat Tazria and Metzora and in America they are reading that portion this week. Tazria begins with that transition. A child is born, the parsha begins. Boys have one rule, girls have another. Each one of them the parents have different obligations. Different processes of purity after the birth, different types of of offerings and sacrifices. Birth offerings, sin offerings, birds, sheep for the wealthy for the indigent. The Torah wants us to not to take for granted this significant milestone. There is perhaps nothing more natural than child-birth. At the same time there is nothing more miraculous. No time, perhaps where we ever feel that close to Hashem. Where we feel God-like, as we become His partner in bringing life to this world. So many things could have gone wrong. Do go wrong, many times. So the Torah tells us to mark this with the rituals of post- childbirth. As well the pidyon haben is done when everything is natural. This is the first born of the mother, there is no casarean sections, no previous miscarriages. When everything seems most natural that Torah wants us to take note and recognize that this is a transition and a time to reflect and plan forward.

Its interesting that the parsha of Tazria is juxtaposed with Metzora. It contains the laws of this spiritual malady that take hold when one does not pay attention to ones life. When one speaks Lashon Hara, when one acts haughtily, stingily. When one pretty much does whatever he or she in the mood of doing without thought of the significance of one’s actions. The remedy the Torah tells us is Tzora’as. Things start to go back. His body has a form of spiritual decay. Kind of like food that sits out and doesn’t’ stay fresh. We get moldy. We have to change everything to get back in the game. We go out of the camp, we redo our house, our vessels, our clothing. WE have to examine everything. We need to recognize that life doesn’t just happen. We have to move with the program, grow with the program and become what we were meant to.
As well this week, I flew to the States. It’s always a jarring experience for me. How little America has changed. Same fancy shuls, same fancy houses, same people running, shopping, buying, selling and yes learning and praying as well. It’s a whirlwind. Israel doesn’t feel that way.

Here I feel that more people are taking life with more appreciation for it. People don’t move as fast, don’t feel like they’re trying to escape as much. They’re busy, talking, laughing, raising children and worrying about them. There’s a lot more arguing about life and its meaning and how the world should be run over here. There is a sense that my life has a lot more significance here. One might say it’s because we live in a constant state of terror threat. Every day may be your last. And although that is certainly a Jewish perspective to live with as our sages say that a person should always “repent a day before he dies”. I don’t think that it is the reason why people live that way. I just think that we appreciate that our living here in Israel is a transition in Jewish history.

 America is same old same old 2000 years exile. Israel living is the beginning of the redemption. It’s the ingathering of Exiles. It’s the process of fulfilling our divine mandate of shining our light, Hashem’s light out onto the world. Yeah…. America with all its kosher pizza shops and Kosher eateries With all its Orthodox Jews in the White House, it’s lobbyists and representatives in congress and the Senate. With all its incredible chesed organizations, its yeshivas, its study halls and even its Torah and mitzvos, just don’t feel to me as having anything near the Jewish or even religious significance as one more Jewish baby being born in Eretz Yisrael, one more house or apartment being built or bought, one more Jewish solider swearing to defend with his life our homeland and every Jew no matter where they are.

As I returned to Israel I began to look at the double portion that we read here this week. I had after all four Torah portions to prepare for in one week. I thought about the juxtaposition of the two portions we read here in Israel. Acharey Mot-after the death of the children of Aharon, the first parsha which discusses the laws of the Yom Kippur, atonement service and the laws of forbidden and illicit relations. And Kedoshim- becoming holy, the varied laws and commandments that that run the entire gamut of areas of life of which the observance of them will sanctify us and separate us from all the other nations of the world. There is a wry joke that is said of how whenever anyone dies the eulogies will inevitably make the deceased sound like the greatest tzadik and forget all the terrible things that the person may have done. It is based on the names of these regularly juxtaposed parshiyot; Acharey Mot- after they die, then Kedoshim- they become holy.
I thought about these parshas and their message of transition as I sat in Moscow Airport on my layover to Israel. And had a choice of three different minyanim to daven from. There were chasidim, Sefardim and plain old American Jews all putting on tallit and teffilin and praying in varied corners and gates of the airport. I watched in wonder and thought about how not even 35 years ago this would have been unheard of. The KGB arrested people for praying, I had Rabbis that smuggled in mezuzot and matzas for Jews that hid their Judaism for fear of death. But the world had changed. It had moved on. There are American magazines in the airport, and Chabad guys putting teffilin on Jews in the streets as thousands of Jewish children are learning Torah in the hundreds of schools in Russia. The former Soviet Union was dead and the kedusha, perhaps in the merit of those that sacrificed their lives to bring out that holiness, was no flourishing. I don’t think anyone there appreciated it. They just took it for granted. Why not? Let’s daven in Moscow airport. But nor me. I was in transition mode and this was incredible.

Finally I arrived back in Eretz Yisrael. Home sweet home. I came home though to perhaps the most meaningful and significant transition that this country has. I returned to the siren of Yom HaZikaron- the Israel memorial day for its 23,646 soldiers and victims of terror that have lost their lives for living here, defending our country, because they were Jews, the ones that may not have been so holy in their lives but in their deaths there is none that can enter into their sphere. The truth is this transition began a week ago with the commemoration of Yom Hashoah- Israeli holocaust memorial day when the State remembers the 6 million that were murdered by the Nazis and all their merry helpers. These memorial days are really the perfect transition into perhaps the most celebrated day in Israel; Yom Ha’atzmaut- Israel’s Independence Day. One can’t appreciate the present without recognizing the past and seeing it as a transition. When we have a Tazria- a birth of a child, a nation, a transformation in our life we have to be wary of not becoming a Metzora someone that just lets it sit and become stagnant. When we experience a death, a tragedy, a loss- Acharery Mot. We should await and anticipate the Kedusha of that moment. The Yom Kippur, the atonement, the holiness and the opportunity for new relationships, new opportunities a new explosion of sanctification into a world that is moving faster and faster to its fulfillment. To the end game. To Mashiach.

We are reading different parshiyot in America and in Israel. They are different but they are the same. They are both parshas that teach us to take note of the incredible times we are living in. We may not be on the same page but we are both heading through transformative times, which brings me to one last transition. We are in the period of Omer right now. Today, Friday is the 20th day of the 49 day counts as we move from Pesach to Shavuot. Form Exile to becoming a nation that received the Torah. It is a time of growth and transition as well as anticipation of that most incredible revelation. At the same time, fascinatingly enough it is a time of mourning. We don’t listen to music, make weddings and take haircuts or shave. During this period the 24,000 students of Rabbi Akiva died, whether of a plague or in the battles of Bar Kochva. As well it is during this period that the Crusades took place when almost 30% of the Jewish population was wiped out in the 11th and 12th century. It is mourning and it is growth, it is exile and it is redemption and becoming, it is remembering the past and seeing how it moves us to an incredible future. It is Tazria and Metzora and Acharey Mot and Kedoshim.

As the sirens end and the festivities of Israel’s 70th birthday dwindle down, I think about how far we have come. I have just read an article written by the nephew of the founder of the anti- Zionist, Neturei Karta Rabbi Yehuda Meshi Zahav on his appreciation of what has changed since the founding of the State. It’s a worthwhile and fascinating read (https://www.theyeshivaworld.com/news/israel-news/1506537/you-were-wrong-a-letter-from-yehuda-meshi-zahav-to-his-uncle-rav-amram-blau-founder-of-neturei-karta.html )

The world is moving faster and faster. The Kedoshim of the past’s merits have brought us a country where even the most secular Jew is singing songs of praise to Hashem. Our first exile from our Temple lasted 70 years. We have now been returned for 70 years to our home. May Hashem now this year bring us to that final transition with His return to His home as well.

Have transformative Shabbos,
Rabbi Ephraim Schwartz

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RABBI SCHWARTZ’S FAVORITE YIDDISH PROVERB OF THE WEEK

“Nit mit sheltn un nit mit lakhn ken men di velt ibermakhn.”- Neither cursing nor laughing can change the world

RABBI SCHWARTZ'S TOUR GUIDE EXAM QUESTION OF THE WEEK
answer below at end of Email

Q: The previous name of Kfar Tavor:
a. Mess’ha
b. Ja’uni
c. Sejera
d. Umm-Juni

RABBI SCHWARTZ COOL VIDEOS OF THE WEEK

https://a7.org/media/a7radio/misc/video/18/apr/hared%2018-4.mp4     - Incredible video of Chariedi children being taught about Yom Hazikaron by Viznitze Chasidic teacher Rabbi Bombach

https://youtu.be/kxzEGSmgYl4?list=PL4FBDAAD0572A52D7   – Eyewitness to history- 1948 American Volunteers to War of independence-inspirational- What would you have done!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J6UcozPpJvs   – Maccabeats Megillat Ha’Atzamut- not my favorite Maccabeats composition but hey it’s Maccabeats right?

https://youtu.be/oxzR9Z-kG6Q     - Shlomi Shabbat and KolKulam with 12,000 people singing Al Kol Eileh magnificent almost impossible not to get chills and emotional…

RABBI SCHWARTZ'S HAFTORA CONNECTION OF THE WEEK

Tazria/Metzora Story Haftoras are always more interesting, but they are even better when the parsha itself has no stories in it. This week the two Torah portions contain the various laws of Metzora, Tazria deals more with the process of becoming a metzora and how, where and the different variations of the tzaras-physical blemish manifestation of a spiritual malady, occur. Parshat Metzora on the other hand deals more with the purification process from it. The Haftora though which is a story from the book of Kings contains some metzoras that seem to play a role in the story but seemingly we always try to find a deeper message and connection that our sages are trying to tell us that reflect on the entire portion.
The story is that the Jewish King of Israel, Yehoram, is facing a siege by the king of Aram. Food is sacrce and people are starving. The King blames the prophet Elisha… it’s always the Rabbi’s fault, right? For his prayers had not been answered. He prophetically tells the King that the next day
Kings II (7:18) “a seah of fine flour will sell for [merely] a shekel, and two seahs of barley will sell for a shekel in the gate of Samaria.'
The Kings doubting servant is rather skeptical and mocks Elisha and Elisha tells him that as a result of his lack of faith he will not enjoy the miracle.
That is the backdrop, the haftorah tells us then of the story of the four lepers that having been quarantined outside of the camp, make their way to the Aramean camp and find it empty. It seems Hashem had performed a miracle and made it sound like great armies were approaching and the Arameans fled, leaving everything behind. The Metzoras ate to their hearts content and then decided to share the news with the camp and the King. Although he was skeptical at first the Jews went out and celebrated when they found the former army camps full of food. They celebrated and took all the stuff. In their haste the skeptical servant got trampled just like Hashem had promised through the prophet.
So that’s the story. The message I believe, which is really the one of Tzara’s in general is that one has to try to see the good, see redemption and appreciate that the salvation of Hashem can come from even the most unlikely of sources. The King, the servant they look down on Elisha, what do rabbis know from politics, from sieges, from famines. Why should we listen to these lepers, these castaways? On the other hand the Metzora who had previously spoken evil as well and seen only the negative here choose to focus on hope, Hashem will provide, let’s go to the enemies camp there will be salvation. As well they share the news with the people. They don’t just hide it for themselves. That is perhaps the greater message and connection our sages wish for us to reflect upon when we read this portion

Elisha (718 BC) – The period of Elisha's prophecy in Israel was a very crucial one. The land suffered from war and famine and was on the verge of total collapse. It was at this time that G‑d sent the great prophet Elisha to bring comfort and courage to the people in distress. Elisha was constantly on the road, mingling freely with the people. He counseled kings and offered his help to a poor widow, with equal grace. So numerous did Elisha's disciples become, that their quarters in Samaria became too small. At the request of the young prophets, Elisha agreed to accompany them to the Jordan, where they intended to build spacious quarters to house all the young prophets who were eager to be near him.

Acharey Mot/ Kedoshim- So Sefardim and Ashkenazim have different Haftorah to read this week. The Sefardim read the haftorah of Kedoshim which is from the book of Yechezkel and the Ashkenazim read the shorter one of Acharey Mot from the book of Amos. Both haftorahs contain the same theme though. They are prophecies that discuss the Jews engaging in the evil and licentious ways of Egypt or Kush (a relative of Egypt). The navi tells how Hashem will wipe out those sinners as the land of Israel will not tolerate this immorality. As well it foretells in Amos of the Messianic period after this immorality is eradicated
of the Jews returning to the land of Israel and all of the incredible porphecies that we see fulfilled today are foretold.

Amos (9:13) Behold days are coming, says Hashem, that the plowman shall meet the reaper and the treader of the grapes the one who carries the seed, and the mountains shall drip sweet wine, and all the hills shall melt.           
14 And I will return the captivity of My people Israel, and they shall rebuild desolate cities and inhabit [them], and they shall plant vineyards and drink their wine, and they shall make gardens and eat their produce.                    
15And I will plant them on their land, and they shall no longer be uprooted from upon their land, that I have given them, said the Lord your God.
There is not too many mountains that one can drive through in Israel that one doesn’t see the vineyards, the crops, the produce and the ingathering of Exiles. We are back and forever! What an amazing Haftora to read particularly this week as we celebrate 70 years back home.

   Amos (646 BC) – Amos began his prophesies during the period of the first temple  when Yeravam ll extended the boundaries of Israel (the Northern Kingdom) and under whose reign the kingdom of Israel flourished. Yeravam attempted to banish Amos from the kingdom because of his prophecy that Yeravam's kingdom would not last. Amos criticized the kingdom for persecuting the poor and immersing themselves in materialism and luxury


RABBI SCHWARTZ'S ERA’S AND THEIR PLACES AND PEOPLE IN ISRAEL OF THE WEEK

The War of Independence 1948 – It is Israel’s 70th Birthday, you want to learn more about the great war that led to the founding of our country when we warded off 5 armies Syria, Lebanon, Iraq, Jordan and Egypt and established our State. Over the past few years there have been some really fantastic upgrades to the many museums that discuss the stories of that yearlong struggle that began in 1947 with the United nations vote and ended in in March of 1949 with the cease-fire agreement. To learn about the soldiers and fighting units one can visit the Palmach museum and Etzel museum in Tel Aviv with their multi-media movie presentations. In the Palmach museum by special arrangement one can even see the film dedicated to the Gachal the foreign immigrant army units. In Kfar Etzion the story of the history and battle of the Etzion bloc that fell on the morning of Yom Ha’atzmaut  the day of the Ben Gurion’s  declaration of independence, is vividly told in their new upgraded multimedia museum. In Latrun one can appreciate the remembrance wall and discuss the tank battles that took place there on the road to Jerusalem and of course in the old city there is the museum where one can see footage of the war for Jerusalem in 1948 and the blowing up of the Churva shul that led to its defeat and surrender. Certainly no tour of the war of independence is complete without a visit to independence Hall in Tel Aviv where one can visit and see displays and films about the declaration of our State and the historic United Nations vote that led up to it.
It is easy to celebrate the birth of our country and to even sing songs of praise to Hashem and to make barbeques but to really make the day meaningful it is worthwhile to become more knowledgeable about the history, the heroism and the story that were the founding of our country.

RABBI SCHWARTZ’S TOP ISRAEL QUOTES OF THE WEEK

When I was a boy, the Dead Sea was only sick. -George Burns

The only thing chicken about Israel is their soup -Bob Hope

Are the Israelis friendly? Don’t ask! If you are lost in Israel and ask directions, they don’t tell you. They take you, then you both get lost. ~ Dave Berg

Students in Israel don’t riot. They’re too busy arguing what to riot about. ~ Dave Berg

Tel-Aviv airport is still the only airport in the world where each passenger is met by ten relatives. ~ George Mikes

Bad English was the second language of Israel and bad Hebrew, of course, remained the national language.George Mikes

Let me tell you something that we Israelis have against Moses. He took us 40 years through the desert in order to bring us to the one spot in the Middle East that has no oil! ~ Golda Meir

If we have to have a choice between being dead and pitied, and being alive with a bad image, we’d rather be alive and have the bad image. ~ Golda Meir

AND MY FAVORITE
On a crowded bus (in Israel), a mother was speaking to her son in Yiddish. An Israeli woman reprimanded her. “You should be speaking Hebrew. Why are you talking to him in Yiddish?’’ The mother answered, “I don’t want he should forget he’s a Jew.’” ~Kirk Douglas
  

RABBI SCHWARTZ’S REALLY TERRIBLE ISRAEL JOKES OF THE WEEK

A voice was heard on Israeli Radio.  “This is Station OYVEH Tel Aviv, 1830 on your dial…. but for you, 1825.”

How does the  Prime Minister’s celebrate Yom Ha’Atzmaut?  BiBiQ

What is the name of the dance we do on Yom Ha’Atzmaut?  The Indepen-dance

A car hit an Israeli man. The paramedic says, “Are you comfortable?” The man says, “Eh, I make a good living.”

A guy is partying on Rothchild and suddenly noticed he lost his wallet. He got up on the bar and shouted, “Excuse me ladies and gentlemen, I’ve just lost my wallet with over 500 shekels in it. To the person that finds my wallet, I will give 50 shek!” A voice from the back of the bar shouted, “I will give 75!”

Hear about the new Japanese Israeli restaurant. It is called  “SohSueMi.”

It’s the Maccabi Games in Tel Aviv and just before their race, an American sprinter asks an Israeli opponent, “So what’s your best time for the 100 meters?” “Just over 8 seconds,” replies the Israeli.”But the world record is around 9 seconds,” says the astonished American. “Yes,” says the Israeli, “but I know a short cut.”

Benny is on holiday in Israel and goes to a concert at the Minkovsky Auditorium. Benny asks one of the officials, “I was wondering whether this magnificent auditorium is named after Dovid Minkovsky, the famous biblical scholar?””No,” replies the official, “It’s named after Harry Minkovsky, the writer” “I’ve never heard of him,” says Benny, “what did he write?” “A cheque,” replies the official.

Moshe was travelling back to London on an El Al flight from Tel Aviv and it was time for the main meal to be served. “Would you like dinner?” a flight attendant asked Moshe.”What are my choices?” he asked.”Yes or no,” she replied

A Journalist has to write a story on the lack of meat in Poland. So he goes off to Poland and asks the people:  “Excuse me, what do you think of the lack of meat in Poland?”  All the poles reply: “Meat? What is meat?”   Seeing he cannot get an answer in Poland he goes to the USSR and asks the Soviets:  “Excuse me, what do you think of the lack of meat in Poland?”  All the Soviets reply: “Think? What is think?”  Seeing he cannot get an answer in the USSR he goes to the USA and asks the Americans:  “Excuse me, what do you think of the lack of meat in Poland?” All the Americans reply: “Lack? What is lack?”  Seeing he cannot get an answer in the USA he decides to go to Israel, and asks the Israelis:  “Excuse me, what do you think of the lack of meat in Poland?”  To which all the Israelis reply: “Excuse me? What is excuse me?”
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Answer is A – Yup, got this one wrong, I guessed Sejera. I wasn’t that far off Sejera is the name of Ilaniya which is right next to Kfar Tavor, but ahh well… The correct answer for this one was Messah. Omm Junni was Deganiya and not sure who Ja’unni. Not that I think any of this information is important or that any of my tourists would ever be interested in the old arba names of the original Jewish villages, but I would have studied this for the exam because I knew that they usually ask questions like this. I guess I deleted it from my memory after the exam, if I never knew it.   

Thursday, December 7, 2017

City of Brotherly Love- Vayeishev 2017 / 5777

Insights and Inspiration
from the
Holy Land
from
Rabbi Ephraim Schwartz
"Your friend in Karmiel"
December 8th 2017 -Volume 8 Issue 8 20th Kislev 5778
Parshat Vayeishev
City of Brotherly Love
 
It wasn’t that much of change moving from Des Moines, Iowa to Norfolk, Virginia. Sure the weather was nicer in Virginia, We had a flayshig kosher option called the Kosher Place- although in Des Moines we had Maccabees Deli as well. There were less people in our shul driving there on Shabbos in Norfolk. But for your basic New Yorker they were both “Out of Town”. Well that’s not entirely accurate. Atlanta, Detroit, Chicago and even Baltimore are out of town. Norfolk and Des Moines are more like the midbar- the wilderness for NY’ers on the same planet as Timbuktu.
 But I’m not talking about the Jewish experience in these cities, I’m referring to the people there. See Des Moines and Norfolk are both salt-of the earth, warm, friendly and talkative people. Coming from New York it was a major adjustment. I remember the first time I came to Des Moines and was on my way home from shul and someone waved and wished me a good evening. I was taken aback. What did he want? Did I do something wrong? Was he trying to hit me up for money? I waved and walked on quickly. But he came running after me. I was getting nervous. I smiled and lowered my eyes as is the appropriate non-threatening NY greeting. But he insisted on schmoozing. How’s my family, how was my move, what did I have for dinner last night, is there something he could help me with in settling in. I just nodded no and looked at my watch. That is a polite New York gesture for ‘No thank you, I have to go. He gave me a big hug after my pretty much monosyllabic answers- which is what you’re trained to do in NY, and wished me a good night. Once again. hmmmm…. Something is strange here.
Slowly I learned that’s what people do in civilized places. People talk to one another. They greet each other and schmooze. I tacked on a few extra minutes to my schedule each day to say good morning to everyone after Shacharis and talk about the weather, my family and last night’s World News and the same for the evening after Maariv. It was nice.
Virginia was pretty much the same experience, just laced with that special southern draaawwwlll…” How y’all doin?” We were greeted with lots of home-baked apple pies, lots of friendly neighborly conversations. Even our gentile neighbors would schmooze each day as we picked up the newspaper from our front lawn. A lawn is this green stuff that grows from the ground in front of your house- for those New Yorkers that are reading right now. Y’know kind of like what you see in the park. No not Boro Park. I mean a Park-Park, where goyim walk their dogs. J.
Now Seattle was a jarring difference though. In Seattle nobody talks to anyone. They text. They message. They ignore and pretend that you don’t exist. People move to Seattle to get away from everyone else in the country and most of them really want to move to Canada. Most people work in Amazon, Microsoft, Boeing or some other hi-tech place where they don’t really have to interact with anyone that’s not on their computer. Hashem barely brings sunshine to the city because He knows that people really aren’t interested in seeing each other and it’s much easier to run past people or stay indoors all day if it’s raining outside. When I was expressing my culture shock to someone over there. He asked me if it was worse than New York. I told him that in New York people at least had the courtesy to swear at you. You existed. They had strong feelings about the way you drove, you voted, you smelled or you did business. In Seattle they didn’t even see you. He walked away from me. I don’t know if he heard me.
But the truth is, it was precisely that culture that made us successful there. We started off our first week of services in the West Seattle TLC (Torah Learning Center) after weeks of advertising and phone calls with an 11 year old boy and a goy. By the time we left 6 years later we had 30-40 coming every Shabbos ( Yes, Jews- See I know what you’re thinking, although we did have our fair share on gentiles as well). We had hundreds coming to classes and programs, we had a Monday and Thursday minyan as well. We became a family. It was wonderful.
See there’s a natural desire for human connection. It’s lonely being alone. The first statement Hashem tells Man is that it is not good for man to be alone. He gave us our wife. Her job is to make sure we never have any alone time again. And thus the quest for the ultimate man cave began. As well as the migration to Seattle.
Well it wasn’t only to Seattle that man began moving to in order to not have to talk and communicate with others. Our story of our first exile to Egypt pretty much began the same way. This week’s Torah portion tells us what happens when brothers can’t talk to one another. In fact not talking seems to be the subtle theme that follows through the entire saga. Our Parsha begins with Yosef, the favored of the 12 tribes, incurring the jealousy and ultimately the hatred of his brothers.
Bereshit (37:4) And his brothers saw that their father loved him from all his brothers, and they hated him and they could not-dabro- speak to him for peace.
Rashi seems to see in this their praise that they couldn’t speak with him “one with their mouths and one with their hearts”. They weren’t politically correct. They weren’t two faced. They were Israeli. Well almost Israeli. See Israelis, like NY’ers say what is in their hearts. They don’t pull punches. The brothers of Yosef-practiced what my mother used to tell me. If you have nothing nice to say, then don’t say anything. OK, she still tells me that… The problem with not saying anything though is that it just builds up resentment. It builds up hatred. Our souls want to connect. To be at harmony and peace within one another. With our brother. And if we don’t engage, there is that tension that is always bubbling on the surface. Yosef repeatedly tries to engage his brother in conversation. He shares with them his dreams. His vision of them uniting as sheaves of wheat, as stars, all bowing to him. It is a true dream and vision. They would ultimately do that. Yet, he doesn’t really get it. They are not interested. Their bowing is meant to come from inspiration from a realization of a shared mission and vision. That can only happen through brotherhood and communication. But as the Torah tells us in its perfect and precise language
“Vayosifu od sno oso al chalomosuv v’al devaruv- and they added on to their hatred of him on his dreams and on his-words”.
I say perfect and precise language, because those words keep coming back. Vayosifu- and they added- is the same root as Yosef-He should add. But rather than add brotherhood, they added od sno es devaruv. They added od-more hatred for his dibur; his words.
Yaakov, the father, who like all fathers wanted only one thing, for his children to unite and be one, “guarded the-davar-words”. He waited and hoped that the unspoken words between the brothers would finally come.
When the brothers leave to shepherd, Yaakov sees and hopes the opportunity has come. He sends Yosef on the mission that changed Jewish history forever. He is specific what he is seeking.
Ibid (37:14) Please go and see the peace of your brother and the peace of the sheep. And return me davar- words.
One can almost hear Yaakov talking. ‘Talk to them Yosef, work it out. Maybe talk about the sheep to get the conversation going, but talk, talk and talk. Bring me their words… Return them to brotherhood; to peace’
Yosef arrives at his brothers and the Torah tells us
Ibid (37:18) And they see him from a distance and before he came close to them and they plotted to kill him.
They saw him from a distance. They feared if he came close they might have to confront him with their feelings. They might have to talk. He might be successful in bringing those words of peace. They might have to bring up their resentments. They might have to do the painful self-reflection on their part of this dispute, this fight, this ideological battle. Better to kill him. Better to sell him down the stream. Anything but to talk.
It takes years. But the day comes. Much later on in Parshat Vayigash, decades, lifetimes, and countries apart, the brothers are all in Egypt and Yosef can hold it in no longer. He has met with them, he has schmoozed with them. He has found out about their families. About their father. That longing for family conversation has been actualizing, but it has all been a scam. They don’t know that it is Yosef. They don’t realize that it is their brother they have been talking with. Yosef was sent on a mission to bring back those brotherly words of peace and the moment has finally come to complete that mission. He sends out the Egyptians. He sends out everyone. It is him and his brothers finally alone together in a room, perhaps for the first time. Yosef begins to weep.
Ibid(45:3) And Yosef said to his brothers ‘I am Yosef Ha’od Vai Chai- is my father od- still-alive.
Remember how Vayosifu od- They added on more hatred? Can you now accept me as od Yosef. Can we talk? Can we add brotherhood? Can I bring back your words of peace to our father? It is all he was living for. Is he still alive?
And the brothers could not answer him for they were disconcerted before him
Awwwkwardd…. As my kids would say. They still couldn’t do it. What do you do when the other doesn’t want to talk? When your brother can’t and won’t speak with you?
Yosef gives us the lesson we should never forget.
Ibid (45:15) And he kissed all of his brothers and he cried on them.
Rashi tells us so beautifully and precisely
Hosif baneshika menashek v’holeich- he added kisses. He kissed and continued
Yosef, the man who had been adding words, realized that what he needed to add was kisses, hugs, tears. He was finally able to get close. He was no longer at a distance. There were no more plots. None of Yosef’s, behind their back, or theirs behind his. It was all on the table. It works.
After all these years the verse concludes
V’Acharey Kein Dibru Echov Ito- And after this the brothers spoke to him
The conversation has begun. The mission of us going down to Egypt has been accomplished.
Ibid (45:16) The voice was heard in the house of Pharaoh saying the brothers of Yosef have come. And it was good in the eyes of Pharaoh and they eyes of his slaves.
We have arrived. We can survive our 400 year exile in Egypt. We can make it through any exile that we are ever sent to. We can raise up the sparks of the entire world. We just have to connect with one another, as that is the only way that the rest of the world will ever connect to us. That they will see the good, as Pharaoh and his servants did in us. That they will connect to Hashem, as One.
I have no expectations that in Seattle people will ever talk to one another. It’s not the city that is meant to be the one of “brotherly love”. Hate to tell you, but neither is Philadelphia. There is one city whose name is an acronym of two words- They will see peace. It’s gotten a lot press this week. It is meant to be the capital of Israel. In the historic words of our President (It’s been a long time since I’ve used those two words together) it is “the capital the Jewish people established in ancient times.” We established it as our capital, not because of its strategic or central location. It really is not too strategically located and Shechem is a lot more central. Not because of its great weather, or even because of the great shwarma stores that they have there. It is located in between two tribes. Yehuda, the representative of the children of Leah and Binyamin, of Rachel. It is the place and symbol of brothers sharing. It is the place where all brothers will come and unite in prayer. It is not a place of demonstrations, divisions and strife. It is meant to be a place of extremism. Extreme love. Extreme brotherhood. Extreme peace. Yerushalayim- See its peace. That is the city of Hashem. That is our capital. United forever.
Have a historic peaceful Shabbos of the year!!
Rabbi Ephraim Schwartz

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RABBI SCHWARTZ’S FAVORITE YIDDISH PROVERB OF THE WEEK

“Az du krigst zikh, krig zikh az du zolst zikh kenen iberbetn.” When you fight, do it in a manner that will allow you to make up.
RABBI SCHWARTZ'S TOUR GUIDE EXAM QUESTION OF THE WEEK
answer below at end of Email
Q. “Magic Carpet” is a name given to the Aliyah of Jews from:
a. Ethiopia
b. Morocco
c. Bulgaria
d. Yemen

RABBI SCHWARTZ COOL VIDEOS OF THE WEEK

https://soundcloud.com/ephraim-schwartz/haneiros-halalu - Rabbi Schwartz original Haneiros Halalu composition in honor of Chanukah !!
https://youtu.be/UpgMAmkxgBs   - Israel Prime Ministers on Yerushalayim

https://youtu.be/YRz7UsYhRg4   - Menachem Begin and Shlomo Carlebach Cool!

https://youtu.be/4A6JDyvhvAc  -Rabbi Shalom Gold on Yerushalayim POWERFUL!

https://youtu.be/GvEXuQvTtEM   -An Upbeat Im Eshkocheich Yerushalayim

RABBI SCHWARTZ'S HAFTORA CONNECTION OF THE WEEK

There are some Midrashim that become so famous and accepted that sometimes we mistake it for the text itself. One of the ones that I recall from my childhood days is that the brothers of Yosef sold him for a pair of shoes. It doesn’t say or even allude to this in the text as far as I am aware. However the source for this seems to be this week’s Haftora, and it just goes to show you how well versed in the Haftorah the Jewish people were that it became to be assumed that this is in the story itself.
The Haftorah begins with the with the statement
Amos (2:6) They have sold for silver a righteous one and the needy for a pair of sandals…”
Yet as we know the Haftorah choice is not just for one verse the entire reading is meant to really interpret and give us the insight of our sages into the parsha. And thus our Haftora talks about a man and his father going to a maiden and desecrating Hashem’s name. This would certainly seem to be a reference to the story in our parsha of Yehuda and his children Er and Onan who all sin with the maiden Tamar and how that was a Chilul Hashem (that ultimately was rectified with Yehuda’s confession). It can also be a reference to Yosef in Egypt being seduced by the wife of his taskmaster Potifar and ultimately he also stops as a result of the desecration of Hashem’s name.
The image that Amos gives us of
Ibid (2:8) “they recline on pawned garments beside every altar and they drink the wine of victims they penalized in the Temples of their gods.”
is not only a warning to the Jews in his era, but it is meant to bring up the memory of the brothers of Yosef who had taken away his colored coat, while he was laying in the pit that they threw him while they ate and drank.
The final part of the Haftora as well reveals to us one of the most important secrets of the Parsha. It is a series of questions Amos poses that all point us to the hand of Hashem in everything that happens in this world. Two people walk together- not by chance- but because Hashem thus decreed. This could be Yosef meeting the Butler and Baker in prison, The angel that Yosef bumps into on the way down to his brothers.
Does a lion roar if he has no captured prey, does a bird fall on a trap if it does not have a snare? Does the shofar sound in a city and the people not tremble? The Lord Hashem has spoken who will not prophesize.
Nothing is random, the Navi is telling us. Hashem sent us to Egypt. He sends us to all of our Exiles in order to hear His voice. That our souls should tremble. The Jews went down to Egypt because it was a divine decree. It was foretold to Avraham years before. It is part of the Divine plan. We need to view history in that way. That is the lesson the prophet and our parsha is teaching us.

Amos (760 BC)-  He wasn’t from a school or yeshiva of prophets. He was a simple shepherd and a dresser of sycamore trees. He lived in one of the most prosperous periods during the first temple. The two kingdoms of Israel the Northern and Southern were reconciling under Yeravam the second and Amatzia the King of Judah. And as in all times of prosperity, we Jews seem to lose our way and thnk that we have finally made it. Amos’s job was to set that notion straight. He speaks of justice, charity and decries the worship of idols and particularly the golden calves that were placed in Beit El. Yet despite all of his rebukes and prophecies of exile and punishment. He also speaks of the ultimate return to Israel that we experience today. The land flourishing once again and ruins being rebuilt.

RABBI SCHWARTZ'S ERA’S AND THEIR PLACES AND PEOPLE IN ISRAEL OF THE WEEK

Abrahamic borders of Israel 1742 BC – The first time Hashem promises Avraham the land, by the Bris Bein Habesarim-the covenant of pieces. It is a big country. One that we have never conquered and still await. You know how the arabs talk about the greater Muslim empire. Well maybe we should start talking about the greater biblical Israel. Which is incidentally probably about as large as Russia and bigger than the United States. The borders Hashem tell us are
Bereshit (15:18-21) From the river of Egypt to the great river Euphrates
This would put us not only through Egypt but all the way down through the Sudan in Africa and pretty much till Ethiopia.
The Keini, Kenizi, Kadmoni, Chitti Prizi. Refaim, Emori, Canaani, Girgashi and the Yevusi
Like me you have no clue where all these place are. But one thing I can tell you is that most of them are not in modern day Israel. But Rashi and other commentaries assure us that the first three are Amon, Moav and Edom- which is pretty much Jordan and the Negev. The other countries are in Saudi Arabia, Iraq, Yemen Lebanon and parts of Turkey and Syria as well.
Here’s a little map so you can appreciate it.

                                    

I like to mention this map and promise whenever I am in places where people wonder if this is really Israel or not. For example the Negev or Eilat area which are outside of the borders that Moshe is given to tell the Jewish people. Or in the Golan or even up by Rosh Hanikra which were not part of the biblical borders- although the Golan and Jordan were in fact given to the tribes of Reuvein and Gad. As well pretty much when anyone looks out from any border of Israel. Be it in the South by Eilat into Egypt, Saudi Arabia and Jordan or in the North to Lebanon and Syria, it’s good to tell your tourists that one day all of that will be ours as well. Take that UN!

RABBI SCHWARTZ’S JEWISH  JOKES OF THE WEEK
A Hebrew School teacher was discussing the Ten Commandments with her five and six year olds.
After explaining the commandment to "honor" thy Father and thy Mother, she asked, "Is there a commandment that teaches us how to treat our brothers and sisters?"
Without missing a beat one little boy (the oldest of a family) answered, "Thou shall not kill."

 Shloimy and Yanky were arguing incessantly. Finally their Mom had enough. "Quiet already! You two kids are always fighting.  Why can't you agree once in a while?"
 Yanky said "We do agree, Shloimy wants the largest apple and so do I."

Having had enough she sent them outside to go sledding. Not much later she heard them fighting again. She screamed out the “Don't be selfish. Let your brother use the sled half the time.”
Shloimy shouted back “I do, Mom. I use it going down the hill and he gets to use it
coming up!”

Mom had the perfect solution. Next time Yanky came home from school and said “I hate Shloimy’s guts” She said “OK I won’t put it in your sandwiches anymore.”

Chaim was listening to his sister practice her singing. ' Rivky' he said, 'I wish you'd sing
Chanuka songs.'
'That's nice of you, Chaim' she replied. 'Why?'
'Then I'd only have to hear you once a year !'

What is your father's job?' asked the Morah on the first day of the new academic year.
'He's a magician, Ma'am,' said the Yanky.
'How interesting. What's his favorite trick?'
'He saws people in half.'
'Wow! now, next question. Any brothers or sisters?'
'One half brother and two half sisters.'


RABBI SCHWARTZ’S CHANUKAH CARTOON OF THE WEEK

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Answer is D – OK I know its not easy to remember all of the different names of the aliyahs to Israel. As a tour guide we don’t neccesarily speak much about the different names or types of Jews. I find questions like this to be more like trivia then anything else. But it is certainly a legitimate question. So here we go. The Ethiopian aliyas were Operation Moses and Solomon and a little unknown one recently called Operaion Doves wings. The largesst Aliya to Israel from an arab country with close a quarter million Olim are Moroccans their Aliya is called Operation Yachin, after one of the pillars in the Temple and a lesser known operation called Mural that smuggled in children. I don’t even know any particular name for the Bulgarian Aliya, if anyone does let me know. But the Yemenite Aliya is the Magic carpet one in Hebrew though it is known as Kanfie Nesharim- or wings of eagles- a much more appropriate name if you ask me, as it refers to Hashem’s promise and return of his people back home rather than to Aladdin’s. But they never asked me. Interesting as well it was also called Operation Biat Mashiach-Mashiach is coming- now that’s a cool piece of trivia.