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Friday, December 15, 2023

Spies, Seals, Soldiers and Me- Parshat Mikeitz Chanukah II 2023 5784

 

A

Insights and Inspiration

from the

Holy Land

from

Rabbi Ephraim Schwartz

"Your friend in Karmiel"

December 15th 2023 -Volume 13 Issue 10 3rd of Tevet 5784

 

Parshat Mikeitz/ Chanukah II

 

Spies, Seals, Soldiers and me

 

Ofir is my mechanic. The first time I met him I was a bit wary. He looked sketchy. He looked like a sefardic Joe Pesci Israeli mafia guy. He talked fast. He had tattoos from his neck down and short crew haircut with a few piercings. To make matters worse, he wasn’t an official mechanic either,  He was what they call in Israel a “chapper”. One of these guys that are handy and run around picking up business on the run and working out of their backyard. Yet, he came highly recommended to me by a few friends and we really needed someone to help us find a car. Having been burnt too many times by the “official” “legit” places it was time to try someone new. What counted the most. Though was that Aliza liked him and if Mama’s happy then everyone is happy. Or at least I can’t get in trouble if it doesn’t work out.

 

Yet as we started to work with him I took a liking to him. He got us a great new car. He negotiated us a great price. He was there whenever Aliza called him to take care of every little car problem that she was able to find. And he took care of them. That was at least until October 7th. After Sukkos this year with the onset of the war, he wasn’t that reachable. Incommunicado. Not answering messages, or getting back to us. I figured he was at war. He was of age. I was nervous for him. I added him in my prayers and davened for him and his family amongst all my other prayers.

 

And then he called. He was in Gaza it seems, and he would be right over after the weekend, and happy to help us. He even apologized, which was pretty bizarre. I mean here he was putting his life on the line for me, for my family, for our country and he was apologizing to me for not getting back to me. Crazy…

 

Yet when he came over and we started to shmooze I realized that I never really knew what a hero I had the fortune to be friends with. See Ofir’s job in the army was that he was a “Mista’arev”- an undercover soldier that dresses up like an Arab. In the ongoing war he had spent three weeks amongst all of those Gazans heading from the North part of the strip down to the South. He was checking to see if there were any terrorists that were heading down hidden amongst the “innocent” civilians. He was on the lookout for any hostages that they may have been trying to smuggle down. He was gathering intelligence about where they might be hiding, what the leaders were up to, where any arsenals, traps or tunnels that our Yishmaelite Nazi cousins may have prepared to attack our troops with and from. Ofir was an army spy doing the bravest and perhaps most dangerous job and I was hocking him about the plastic door handle that was broken in my car.

 

But he wasn’t just a warrior. He was a Tzadik. Not the type that we generally picture or go to for blessings, but someone who talked with and had so much faith, so much humility, such a strong strength of mesirus nefesh and sacrifice for Eretz Yisrael and Klal Yisrael that I couldn’t help but to hug him and kiss him and ask him to bless me. I saw him in a whole new light. Like I ‘ve never seen him before. I saw him for real. And Ofir is just one of the many that I think everyone here in Eretz Yisrael is seeing again and again in all our brothers and sisters whom we had thought we had known and painted into a box but in reality never really saw the greatness that was their essence that always lay beneath the surface. It’s like each of us had these fake spy impressions until now that presented themselves to me, and now for the first time I was seeing the real light, person and soul that was never revealed to me before.

 

Which of course brings us to this week’s Parsha and Chanukah. I know I keep saying it and writing it but it just keeps astounding me how every week’s parsha is like a newspaper article of the times and messages we are experiencing. We read about how the brothers join the lines of people heading down South to Egypt for “humanitarian aid” that is being provided by Yosef and I’m just thinking of all of those images and videos we’ve been seeing of all of those Gazans heading down in the same direction. Amongst them back then just as today, there are Jewish “spies”; tzadikim like Ofir. The 12 tribes, like Ofir, also have a mission of trying to find their brother whom they had assumed was being sold into captivity. The brother who was kidnapped- albeit by them, whose father was mourning and inconsolable over, as there are so many parents mourning and hoping today as well for the return of their children. Mamash, “Ba’yamim ha’heim ba’zman ha’zeh”.

 

The story is a powerful one and a strange one. The commentaries struggle with trying to understand Yosef’s rationale for shlepping this thing out. Why didn’t he reconnect with his father right away? Why put his brothers through this entire rigmarole? Sending them back with their money, accusing them of being spies, holding Shimon captive, hiding the goblet in Binyomin’s bag. It’s obviously not revenge. Yosef the tzadik doesn’t roll that way. He continuously reiterates that all that happens is from Hashem. So why not just kiss, make-up and move on. We know he wants to, so what’s holding him back?

 

Last week we discussed the idea that many commentaries take that this story is about Yosef fulfilling the mission that his father sent him on to restore the brotherhood between them. The Ramban takes the approach that Yosef was doing all of this to fulfill the dreams that he had in which all of the brothers would bow down to him and accept him as their ruler. Some even suggest that Yosef understood that this had eternal significance, that at the end of the day the brothers would have to come together under Yosef, the brother who would prepare the land and the nation materially. His descendant would be Yehoshua, who interestingly enough was himself one of the spies that Moshe sent into the land. The spy that got it right. Fascinatingly the Baal Ha’Turim even sees in Yehudah’s response to Yosef that

 

Lo hayu meraglim- that we are not spies.

 

That Yehudah was telling Yosef that his descendant Caleiv was also not pulled into the plot of the spies to discredit Eretz Yisrael. Lo Hayu as he notes in gematria is the same numerical value as Caleiv. The entire story, the redemption and reunion of these brothers seem to revolve around spies.

 

It’s not just this story but even years later as well we find that our coming into the land is precipitated on the sending of spies by Moshe and ultimately again 40 years later by Yehoshua. We need good spies to get the land. We need people that can dress up like the enemy, perhaps put on the clothing of Esau, Yishmael, and maybe even Hamas and ultimately not forget the Yaakov, the Yisrael, the Bnai Avinu Echad- that we are all the children of one father and have that shared spark and destiny to be able to achieve our birthright. In order for us to win and conquer our land. We need holy Ofirs.

 

There’s an interesting Talmud that would seem unrelated to all of this, yet it is one that Reb Tzadok HaKohein derives a profound lesson from. The Talmud in Chulin tells us that every animal that can be found on the land has a counterpart that can be found in the sea. The Mishna in Keilim tells us that the animals on land are impure, whereas the ones in the sea are pure. The one exception to that rule though, Rabbi Akiva rules, is the seal. For the seal lives on both the land and the sea. Yet it is considered a land animal because in times of storm when it is in danger it flees to the land. The Tifferes Yisrael explains that where a person runs to when they are in danger reveals their true essence. What they are really about. Where their home really is.

 

{An interesting aside to this Talmud is a ruling that I heard that was given during one of the previous wars in Israel when some Yeshiva students and Kollel families that had been living here went back to America because of “the situation” as they like to call it. Although some of those Kollel families had been living here for years and been observing only one-day Yom Tov of the holidays as is the custom of Eretz Yisrael, they were told that upon returning to America-despite the fact that they felt this was only a temporary refuge, they would have to go back to keeping two days. They’re not really toshavei Eretz Yisrael. The place where you run to when in danger reveals what your essence is. And it seems that they were more Red white and Blue than Blue and White. Their Aliya hadn’t yet reached their core. }

 

Reb Tzadok Ha’Kohein though takes this idea and sees in this a tremendous insight, light and praise of our nation and what our essence is. We say in Psalms and in our daily morning prayers that Hashem is our refuge in times of tzara. When a Jew is in peril, when we are facing mortal danger, when the bullets are flying, when the terrorists are outside our door, in our scariest and darkest  moments then no matter how far, how disconnected, how much of an atheist or non-believer he may have assumed himself to be, there are six words that will inevitably scream out from the depths of his soul.

 

Shema Yisrael Hashem Elokeinu Hashem Echad- Hashem is One.

 

The spark has been ignited. Yisrael is one nation and we have one God. We reveal our essence. We show what we really are. Everything else that we’ve been doing has just been “spy clothing”. It’s been dressing up like someone we aren’t. In times of trouble though the truth comes out. The real me is revealed. We’ve found our Yaakov again. We’ve revealed it to the world.

 

The story of Yosef and his brothers starts off with Yosef interestingly enough being the guilty party. He’s bringing lashon harah about his brothers to his father. He’s not giving them the benefit of the doubt. He sees them as sinners. He’s not looking deep inside at who they really are. He doesn’t see the greatness and holiness that is their essence. He’s fooled by the clothing and mannerisms that are different and suspect to him. He’s dressed up in his fancy coat, his colorful rebbishe bekketcheh and he’s speaking bad and down about them.. He believes he’s doing it for the right reasons, he has dreams of uniting them, of a future together, but he needs to fix them first. He doesn’t realize that maybe he needs fixing as well. He’s himself is a spy that’s working under bad intelligence. That he’s got some contzeptziot  of his own that need to be changed; that need to be broken

 

The brothers at the same time see Yosef as an interloper, as someone that is power-hungry, as the jilted first-born that was trying to turn their father against them and destroy the brotherhood and the nation. After-all there’s always been a bad brother until now in the Torah. Kayin, Cham, Yishmael, Esau. It’s tradition already. But they too are not seeing the real deal. They as well are seeing Yosef’s “spy” clothing and they want to strip him of it. They’re not reflecting on perhaps what they need to change about themselves. That perhaps they’re being motivated more by jealousy, by a sense of inferiority, by a fear of losing their own perceived positions to their younger brother, than by the righteous spiritual indignation that they claim to be working with. Everyone is so caught up in the costume they’re wearing and they don’t realize that it’s just a camouflage covering up their essence. Their love and brotherhood. That underneath it all, there’s a holy spark that needs to shine and be revealed. That has to come together.

 

Yosef’s tikun comes first. He is thrown in a pit. He is taught through the hardest lessons how false accusations, misconstrued circumstances and lashon hara can destroy someone. The worst libels in the world are laid against him. He is framed and he is persecuted. Through that process he understands that to win over evil, he needs to humble himself before Hashem. He has to find the light. There is nothing more that he wants than to be seen for the real person who he is. In the time of the worst trouble Yosef finds his essence. His internal menorah has been lit.

 

With that he understands that for his brothers to be healed they as well need to go through the same process. They need to undergo the lesson of seeing beyond the disguise and getting to their own essence. The essence that they shared. They need to see what really matters is what they have in common, not what divides us.  He does that by calling them spies. They’re not really who they’re pretending to be. The self-righteous clothing they were wearing was as well just spy clothing. There was a shared brotherhood and love that weas buried so deep and they needed to find that. So he calls them out.

 

He calls them spies and they deny it. He calls them thieves and they deny it. He tells them they are lying. To themselves most of all. That they’re not recognizing the brother next to them. That they don’t recognize the brother in themselves to him. That they are all the children of one father. And slowly bit by bit it starts to work. They start to find themselves and go back to the beginning  and reexamine things.

 

We hear them throughout the parsha repeat it again and again to Yosef.

“We are the children of one father.”

 “Our brother is gone”.

 “Our father is bereft”.

“It was a tragedy”.

“It was our fault”.

 

Bit by bit, layer by layer, as the trouble intensifies more and more the Hashem Echad is coming out. In the time of trouble, in the darkness, in the horror and threat like seals they’re fleeing the sea and coming to the land. They’ve reached the point where they are ready to give their lives once again for another. They will wage war against the entire country, against the entire world, to save their brother. They’ve found themselves. They know who they are, what we are about, what we need to fight for and it’s at that point that we can shine and do what we need to do. We’ve become Yaakov and now we can don the garments of Esau and do his job too. We can even bring him and the entire world to Hashem. Galus could be over, because we have learned that galus/ exile is all about revelation; to reveal the essence of who and what we are.

 

It's the last day of Chanuka. Every day of the holiday, I noticed this morning we’ve been reading the Torah portion that describes the sacrifices of each of the leaders of 12 tribes upon the dedication of the Mishkan. Today on the last day we read the last 4 tribes to make it that we read all 12. The point of the reading it struck me is for us to hear again and again that each of us, each tribe, each brother has a place in the Mishkan. That each of our sacrifices ultimately are the same. They may each come from a different plave, from a borther that is different than us, but before Hashem the dedication only comes when all 12 have brought their sacrifice. When all of us have come before Hashem. V’Zos Chanukas Ha’Mizbayach- that is how the dedication of the altar can happen. Only then can we read the final portion the Kohen Gadol lighting the MEnora and all its lamps shine to the center. Only then can Hashem’s house be established.

 

 It’s been a Chanuka like no other that I can recall. We are at battle, we are at war, we are chasing away darkness, we are eradicating evil. There are Menoras being lit this year in bunkers, in bomb shelters, in dark places where there has been no light for years. Where there has only been evil. In Gaza. As well there are Menoras being lit by many of our brothers and sisters that have never lit before. Not only in Israel, not only in war zones, but around the world. “Shema Yisrael” is being shouted by Jews who barely know what the words mean. It’s being shouted by gentiles who see that light and want to be part of it. It’s like the story of Purim when the Megilla tells us that many of the non-Jews were “misyahadim”- became attached to the Jewish people

 

Ki nafal pachad ha’yehudim aleihem- the fear of the Jews fell upon them.

 

Reb Shlomo Alkabetz homiletically explains that verse by saying that the real “fear” and “awe” of the Jews is Hashem. When the non- Jews saw that the fear of Hashem had fallen upon us, when they see where our refuge and where we run to when we are frightened, when the storm hits us, they see the revealed light that is shining from underneath. When they heard our Shema Yisrael, our Am Yisrael Chai, our tefillin, our brotherhood, our Menoras, our light, Hashem’s light, then they as well joined back then in the Purim story. They also wanted a piece of that. They saw who we really are and understood what they as well could also become.

 

Eretz Yisrael will become ours, the shechina will come down once again, we will be home and Hashem will be home when the light that comes from the storms of galus sends us running to the land, to our deepest inner selves, to our brotherhood. We will not be spies that are trying to uncover the “nakedness of the land” but rather holy spies that will reveal the light that can shine through the 2000 years of camouflage and bigdei galus that we’ve been wearing for so long and that made us forget who we really are. The day we are awaiting for will be even greater than the one that we had when we left Mitzrayim. Because then it was Hashem taking us out from the 49th level of tumah, whereas this year we will god-willing be celebrating with the light that we are bringing up to Him. The light He has waited 5784 years for us to reveal. The eternal light of the Bais Hamikdash rebuilt.

 

Have a lightfilled Shabbos and may all our prayers be answered,

Rabbi Ephraim Schwartz 


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YIDDISH PROVERB OF THE WEEK

“Ven ain soldat volt gevust vos der anderer tracht, volt kain krig nisht geven.”.- If one soldier knew what the other thinks, there would be no war.

RABBI SCHWARTZ'S TOUR GUIDE EXAM QUESTION OF THE WEEK

answer below at end of Email

18.The name of the archeological museum which was established during the British Mandate

is_________.

Which archeological site suffered massive destruction due to usage of outdated digging methods?

A. Tel Lachish

B. Yodfat

C. Tel Gezer

D. Gamla

 

RABBI SCHWARTZ’S COOL VIDEO OF THE WEEK

 

https://soundcloud.com/ephraim-schwartz/maoz-tzur - It’s not Chanuka without my Rabbi Schwartz Compositions here’

 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Iky-KPl1-Og – Ari Goldwag’s latest Live to Give

 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PAmdS9AnUts   – Maccabeats We’re still here Am Yisrael Chai

 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bSj9pOUJ6tI   -  Y-Studs You can Light with me Chanuka Acapella

 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wXI0CLgK-Ds  - 613 Era-Luiton?

 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=o9PRlr2M4x4   – Dovid Lowy’s amazing new rendition of a Golden Oldie “Don’t hide from Me”

 

 

 

RABBI SCHWARTZ’S PARSHA PRAYER INSPIRATION OF THE WEEK

 

Yackov’s Painful Prayer – This column has been one of the more challenging ones for me to write. I like challenges. It’s why I decided to start writing it. Tefilla is called avoda- service, labor, work. It’s something we do daily and thus it takes the most effort to keep it new and fresh. It’s kind of like marriage in that way. And in a way it really is a form of marriage. It’s the relationship between  us and Hakadosh Baruch Hu. And as everyone know the key to a good and healthy marriage is communication. It’s the crux of it all. And Tefilla/ prayer is our communication with Hashem.

 

Yet, finding tefilla in every parsha is no easy task. Especially in parshas that are full of great narratives. But I guess it’s true for conversation in life as well. So it’s work and Baruch Hashem it’s been fulfilling. I hope it is for you as it is for me.

 

Well in this week’s parsha there is a prayer as well. It’s one I never noticed before, and I guess that’s why I like this challenge or most challenges because it forces me to discover new insights and ideas that hopefully can make my tefilla more meaningful.

 

So what’s the prayer. It’s really just a few words. It’s right before Yaakov sends his children back down to Yosef. He turns to them and tells them

 

V’Kel Sha-dai Yitein lachem Rachamim- and Hashem should give you mercy

Lifnei Ha’ish- before the man

And he should send with you your other brother and Binyamin and as I have been bereaved I will be bereaved.

 

Rashi notes that Yaakov’s terminology here is that he is telling the brothers that I gave you all my advice, I gave you presents, I gave you the strategy. But now all that remains is prayer. I will daven for you as well. Ultimately that’s what it comes down to.

 

When he davens for his children he utilizes the name of Hashem of Kel Sha-dai which Rashi explains is a reference to Hashem as the one who told the world Dai-Enough! The world was expanding more and more and Hashem stopped and fixed the world in a set position. That same God, Yaakov invokes, should as well say enough to all of my troubles. He recalls since the day he was born he was in constant turmoil. From esau, to Lavan, to Dina to the death of Rachel. It’s been endless. Hashem should say enough already.

 

What is the connection to troubles and Hashem as the One who said the world should stop expanding? Wouldn’t the name to be invoked more appropriately be Hashem as the merciful one, as our Father, as the God of peace. What does the Creation of the world have to do with anything? Why is this the prayer that Yaakov chose.

 

There is a fascinating Midrash that it says when Rabbi Akiva was taken out to be killed the angels saw this and asked is this the reward for all he the Torah he has learned and Hashem told them to be quiet. This was His original intent when He created the world and if they continued to protest Hashem would have to return it to it’s original state and start all over. It’s a strange Midrash for it leaves us with the question of the angels. Be quiet and accept Hashem seems to say. But I believe there is an even deeper concept here.

 

In Hebrew the word for world is Olam- which also means hiddenness. Being that Hashem is infinite to created a limited physical universe it’s essence is going to be Hashem hiding Himself, minimizing Himself. It’s the only way that physicality can exist. When Hashem told the world to stop expanding in essence what He was saying is that there is enough hiddenness. It’s too much. They won’t be able to find Me and reveal Me anymore. That’s the whole point of Creation. That in the times of trouble when we don’t see Hashem- we dig deep and reveal His light. We find His presence. Rabbi Akiva was able to do that and he died as so many martyrs did with those words on his lips. Hashem tells the angels that this was the point. This is how I can most connect in the deepest way with man. It’s the way that My relationship will be eternal. Don’t make me go back and start again.

 

This is the prayer that Yaakov tells his children. That in times of trouble they will be able to find Hashem. They will see his Hand. If there’s a trouble if there’s a difficulty, if there’s pain, if there’s October 7th, know that it comes from Hashem who told the world to stop hiding Him at the perfect point. Hashem can still be found, otherwise He would’ve told the world to continue expanding. He wants to be found. And thus if that is the case He will tell our troubles to be enough as well. He will return your brother. He will return us. We will all come home and be redeemed.

 

 

RABBI SCHWARTZ'S ERA’S AND THEIR PLACES AND PEOPLE IN ISRAEL OF THE WEEK

 

The Decline of the Kingdom of Israel and the aftermath of Chanuka- Chanukah is coming to an end and once again there seems to be a connection with our study and the aftermath of the Chanukah story as we move from Yehudah’s kingdom in Jerusalem and the death of Uziya/ Azarya back to the story of the 10 tribes in the North. We are at the 4th and last descendant of Yehu to be king and it has been a downward spiral. Things had looked so bright under Yehu’s kingdom. He killed out Achav’s remaining family. He instituted a religious reform and destroyed the worship of the Baal. He was anointed by Elisha himself to lead the people but because he didn’t complete the job and he allowed the altars of Yeravam to remain he went downhill. Hashem had told him that he would have four generations to get their act together but one after another they failed.

 

The 3 kings that ruled from the line of Yehu were Yehoyachaz, Yoash and Yeravam the 2nd. This week we have the final king Zecharia who takes over and he is no better than his predecessors. He sins and is assassinated by Shulam Ben Yavesh publicly. Shulam reigns for a month until he is taken out by Menachem Ben Gadi, the next king to rule. Menachem as well is an evil king and yet he manages to reign for 10 years. Under his rule he decided to invade the neighboring Aramean city of Tiphtza. He assumed they would recognize and support his kingship being that he was their neighbor. They finally had someone from their own hood that was ruling Israel. Yet when they didn’t he brutally or even savagely to be more accurate massacred their city. The Navi describes his brutality as one where he literally slices open pregnant woman. We’re talking October 7th sickness. This was as low as we could get and the retribution of Hashem is quick and coming with the rise of Assyria to the international world plate. And we’re their first major victims.

 

Ashur sets heavy taxes upon Israel and Menachem begins the process of Israeli pacifism paying hundreds of thousands of shekels to our enemy to keep us safe. Ultimately this is the beginning of our subjugation which will ultimately lead to the exile of the ten tribes by this wicked empire. We actually have some corroborating evidence of these taxes in transcripts found in Assyria as well as in Shomron. With Menachem’s death after his 10 year rule his son. Pekachiya takes over and things get even messier.

 

It's a sad story. It’s a tragic story. It’s one that we see repeats itself in the aftermath of Chanuka as well. We have this tremendous light of Chanuka with the Maccabees and Chasmonaim, yet it doesn’t last. The children and grandchildren of Yehuda Maccabee are Greek once again. They’re Hellenists. They defile the Temple and ultimately it leads to the entrance of Rome and the destruction of our Temple not two centuries later. We have a problem taking the light of Chanuka and making it a long term one. And when we don’t it just gets worse than it was even before we started. Hopefully we’ve learned this lesson by now and IYh the special light we are seeing in the world now should last forever with the building of the Temple and the return of the children to our borders.

 

RABBI SCHWARTZ'S FUNNY CHANUKA GAZA MEMES/ JOKES OF THE WEEK

 

The hostages are not able to celebrate Chanuka so many people are lighting an extra Menora for them. I on the other hand have taken on to eat a doughnut for each them. 37 down 100 to go.

 

Not sure whether to have that extra doughnut or not?  They call it Sugani-yah for a reason. Yah! Eat it…

Which coffee should you drink on Chanukah? In English it's called 'Miracle of the 25th', but it's better known by its Hebrew translation: nes cof hei (sometimes spelled Nescafe)

 

Imagine how upset Hitler would be if he knew that Jews were being compared to him…

 

The IDF is pumping water into Hamas Terror Tunnels. You wanted from the River to the Sea now you got it…

 

Did you see all those pictures of the surrendering Hamas Terrorists? They call it Gaza Strip for a reason…

 

Even Albert Einstein can’t explain how a doughnut that weighs 150 grams makes me 2 Kilos fatter.

 

Did you see all those videos and pictures of Santa putting on Tefillin. It’s become a new chasidus called Santa Kalusenberg

 

Line of the week- Queers for Palestine are the Gay Neturei Karta.

 

 

The answer to this week”s question is C – This is the third week in a row that I’m only getting my answers half right. This is not good. I knew that the museum they were talking about is the Rockfeller museum. That was easy, they have lots fo stuff from British mandate there and its’ located in Jerusalem. The second part though I wasn’t sure. I was leaning towards Gezer to be honest, but last minute switched my answer to Lachish. And what do you know? I should’ve gone with my initial instinct. The correct answer was Gezer. Ahh well I’m still ahed of the game here. And the latest score is Rabbi Schwartz at 12.5 point and the MOT having 4.5 point on this latest Ministry of Tourism exam.

Sunday, December 10, 2023

Of Brothers Lost and Found- Then and Now- Parshat Vayeishev Chanukah 2023 5784

 

 

Insights and Inspiration

from the

Holy Land

from

Rabbi Ephraim Schwartz

"Your friend in Karmiel"

December 8th 2023 -Volume 13 Issue 9 25th of Kislev 5784

 

Parshat Vayeishev/ Chanukah I

 

Of Brothers Lost and Found, Of Then and Now

 

It’s not about them anymore. It’s about us. The past few week’s Torah portions taught us about the world around us. The threats and enemies who sought to destroy us; destroy our ancestors. There was Yishmael, there was Lavan, Esau, the Philistines. There still are. The past few weeks have brought home and made more real for the first real time to my generation and those younger than mine, that

“Shebichol dor va’dor omdim aleinu l’chaloseinu”- that in every generation they “will rise to annihilate us” is more than a song that we sing by our Pesach Seder or by Kumzitz sing-alongs. It’s real. It’s now. And it’s been forever.

 

But this week it’s no longer about them. The rest of our story in Bereishis is about us. Our self-destruction and our reconciliation. Our Exile and our Redemption. As we say on Chanuka, Ba’yamim ha’heim- in those days, Ba’zman ha’zeh in our times.

 

Last week Dinah was kidnapped by our enemies. This week Yosef is, by his own brothers. Last week Lavan was trying to trick us and steal our sheep, our goats and was trying to keep us captive. This week we fool our own father with those same sheep, Yehuda reneges on his deal and obligation to his daughter in law Tamar with those goats and we sell our own brother into captivity. Shimon and Levi were united last week as they took up swords to defend their family’s honor; the honor of Israel over the violation of their sister. This week we disgrace ourselves like harlots where both Yehudah and Yosef find themselves in cesspools of licentiousness and Shimon and Levi are ready to take up those same swords to spill their own brother’s blood.

 

And the story keeps going. While last week we began with Yaakov dreaming of connecting heaven and earth of angels and ladders. Yosef just dreams of everyone coming together, of ruling over one another, of bowing sheaves of wheat. Our story has shifted. It’s no longer them against us. It’s us against one another. It’s how our exile began. It’s why it began. Redemption and even retribution against Pharaoh and those that come up against us will only happen when that rift heals. When we come together again.

 

How did we fall so fast… so far? How did we lose that achdus and sense of family and brotherhood that we had when we stood together against Lavan, against Esau, against Shechem? When we were united. Our Parsha tells us it came when Yosef spoke badly of his brothers, it came from jealousy, it came from righteous indignation. But it wasn’t the hatred and the fight. It wasn’t the theological differences. It comes down to three words, and if one follows the text and the narrative it is those three words that follow the entire story.

 

V'lo yachlu dabro l’shalom- and they couldn’t speak to him of peace

 

They couldn’t talk. There was no communication. It wasn’t the fight. We Jews fight all the time. The problem was that they didn’t fight. They held it in. They assumed that there was nobody there to talk to. No one even worth fighting with. The Ibn Ezra notes that they couldn’t even talk about matters unrelated to their argument. Matters of the household, what’s for dinner, how about dem Mets.. nice new coat you got…The verse can even be read homiletically. They didn’t speak to him- dabro is a harsh term, l’shalom to reach a point of common ground that might have led them to peace. They had written him off. And once you write someone off, then it’s not too far to throw him into a pit. He’s no longer “fun unzereh”. He’s no better than a goy and perhaps even worse.

 

Yaakov sees that and hears Yosef’s dream, he sees the hatred and jealousy and his response is

 

V’aviv shamar es ha’davar- His father guarded the matter.

 

Davar… the matter… the words… the conversation. This needs to be fixed. We need to come together. We need to talk. The brothers head down to Shechem and Yaakov sends Yosef after them with a mission.

 

Lech na re’eh es shlom achecha v’es shlom ha’tzon- go please and see the peace of your brother and the sheep.

 

Find that place of peace. The peace that they couldn’t even talk to you about. Don’t make it about yourself even. Perhaps just talk about sheep. Talk about your job. Talk about me. But find that missing peace.

 

V’hashiveini davar- and return that davar- that word, that conversation….

 

The holy Rebbi of Phshicha gives an even deeper insight. He would tell his students that the eternal message that Yaakov sent him was to go and see the peace in within your brother. Find that light within them. Shalom is the name of Hashem- find and see that spark and godliness in them. In that way you can connect to them. You will have what to talk to them about. You can return the davar- the words.

 

But the brothers didn’t see that.

 

Va’yiru oso mei’rachok- they saw him from a distance.

 

They couldn’t see past the colored coat, the colored shirt, the different hat, the different dreams and visions. They couldn’t get close. They wouldn’t get close. He was off the derech. He was far from them. They threw him in a pit. They wrote him off and then they ate and drank, as if the greatest tragedy in the world hadn’t just occurred. He wasn’t one of them anyways. He wasn’t their brother.

 

In fact the angel that Yosef met along the way asked Yosef what he was looking for Yosef said famously

 

Es achai ani mevakeish- I’m looking for my brothers. For that brotherhood. For them to see that we’re family. That we have a shared legacy and destiny. Yet, the angel tells him

Nasu mi’zeh- they left this. As Rashi says they left that brotherhood. They’ve written you off. They don’t see you as one of them anymore.

 

Even when Reuvein tries to save Yosef, he doesn’t call him their brother, rather as the yeled. The child. His plea is don’t hurt a young boy. Yehudah though does still see him as his brother, when he says what will we gain by killing our brother. Yet even he doesn’t see that as a reason to bring him. Rather it’s to send him away. To keep him far. To sell him out.

 

It is at that moment that the Yishma’elim come take the stage. Yishmael, who himself was thrown out from his father’s house for one reason. One reason only. Yishmael was chucked because as Sarah said, he was not the brother that would inherit with Yitzchak,. His existence will threaten the line of Yitzchak. The children of Yaakov. The 12 tribes. The revelation of shalom in the world.

 

Yishmael was sent away, thrown away to the bush in midbar. But he comes back when we’ve destroyed that brotherhood ourselves. He comes back with a claim that we can’t answer. Why is he any different than us? He comes back to take us down to exile. To kidnap our children, our brothers, to sell them and use them as pawns. To remind us why we’re here. To make us look close at that gaping hole in our hearts that our brother’s loss, pain and absence has left. To make us wish that we could talk to him again.

 

The end of the story will occur at the end of this book when through Yosef’s machination the coin flips. It will be the brothers that are coming down looking for their brother, Binyamin. They return to deliver Shimon who was being held hostage by Egypt- in the form of what they perceived to be their viceroy who was in reality Yosef, their own brother that they had refused to recognize. It’s what happens when you don’t recognize your brother when he is with you. Hashem will make it and force your hand to the point where you realize that we are all brothers. If there is no Yosef, there is no Shimon, there is no Binyamin. If there is no Itai, there is Kfir, there is no Maia and there is no Yanky, Yoily, Shaindy or Brachie. We’re all one family. We’re all the children of one father and one Father. There was 12 of us. We lost one. And since then we’ve been losing more and more.

 

By the end of Chanuka when we read Vayigash we will read about the reunion of Yosef and his brother. When Yosef reveals himself. The verse tells us he

 

Ani Yosef- I am Yosef is my father still alive. It still isn’t over. The brothers still couldn’t answer. They still couldn’t speak. They were shamed. They were frightened. They didn’t feel connected. And then it finally happens.

 

Va’yomer Yosef el echuv And Yosef said to his brothers.

Geshu na eilai- come close to me.

 

 Come close. Remember when you couldn’t let me come close. How you only saw me from the distance. You saw my flaws, my sins, my different color coat, shirt, my long hair, my tattoos, my sins, my politics, my world-view different than yours. Come close. See me with you. Feel me. Hug me, embrace me. Cry with me.

And they came close… finally. And he said

 

 Ani Yosef achichem- I am Yosef your brother that you sold to mitzrayim

Don’t worry. Don’t feel bad. It wasn’t you. It was Hashem that made this happen. I was sent

 

L’michya- to revive us.

Lasum lachem she’eris ba’aretz- so that we will have with what to remain in the land.

U’lhachayos lachem l’flayta gedola- that so what we will live and merit to be a great refuge.

 

We will return from being held hostage. From being captives. We will be redeemed. We will be the brothers we are meant to be.

 

Va’yinashek l’chol echav va’yevch alehihem- And he kissed all his brothers and he wept over them. He wept and cried over the years that they had lost together. Over the brotherhood that for so long had been missing. For the pain their stubbornness had caused their Father. Our Father. For the place that it had brought them. For the future generations when this sin will occur again and again. It will be the destruction of the Mishkan and the two temples. It will be the final exile of Rome, of Edom, of Hitler and of October 7th.

 

V'acharey kein dibru echav ito- and after that his brothers spoke to him. The conversation finally happened. We spoke. We were brothers. When that happened something else amazing happened as well.

 

V’hakol nishma beis Pharaoh la’imor- and the voice went out throughout the house of Pharaoh.

Ba’oo achei Yosef- the brothers of Yosef have come. They are brothers. They are one nation. That voice of Yaakov- that kol that will reveal the light to the world, that the whole world is waiting for is finally here.

 

Va’yitav bei’enei Pharaoh u’viei’nei avadov- and it was good in the eyes of Pharaoh and they eyes of his servant. For the entire world is waiting for us. They’re waiting for the brotherhood to reveal itself. It’s a story then. It’s our story today.

 

This past week I visited the Kibbutz of Be’eiri, the largest of the Kibbutzim on the Gaza border that was hit on the Shabbos Ha’Shachor- the black Shabbos that was Simchas Torah. The horrors we heard about, the destruction that we saw, the atrocities that were committed have kept me up at night since then. And what we heard and saw was only a tiny drop of what actually occurred. So much pain, so many tears, such darkness. When our tour was over I asked my friend Yardy who was born and raised there and was the only person that was non-military there- as he was singlehandedly trying to salvage the crops of avocado and citrus of the Kibbutz and pick them along with volunteers who came from all over to help, where we could daven Mincha he took us to the Kibbutz shul. And it was then that I had the shock of my life and one of the most powerful moments.

 

The shul was in perfect shape. It was untouched. All around us on all sides was destruction. Houses burnt, bullet-ridden kindergartens, medical clinics, grocery stores all looked like Gaza. Like Auschwitz. Yet in the middle the shul remained standing without even a broken window. There wasn’t a grazed bullet. I was astounded.  I would’ve thought it would be the first place the terrorists would’ve attacked. I had imagined Kristallnacht, with broken glass, thrown and strewn prayer books and chumashim, burnt talitot and desecrated sefer Torahs. Yardy didn’t have any answer or explanation why this was left. Why the terrorists never came here. Perhaps he suggested they assumed that nobody would be there. It didn’t make sense.


But then I walked outside and saw the name of the Synagogue emblazoned on the door. It was in wood in colorful letters. It said two words. “Ahavat Yisrael”. The of Yisrael. The love of brothers. It was as if Hashem looked down, just as He did, when He went to destroy the world with the flood in Noach’s era- because it was full of “Chamas”. It was like when He came down to talk to Avraham before destroying Sodom and turning those cities over. Yet, here Hashem spared the shul. He wanted us to understand that where there is Ahavas Yisrael, then Yishmael will never be able to touch us. We will be protected. We will be on. He will be revealed. He will have His home here amongst our Ahavas Yisrael- and the house of Pharaoh will find it good in their eyes.

 

This year as we light and celebrate the holiday of Chanuka, the blessing of those days in our time has more meaning than ever. The light will conquer the darkness once again. Yet for that to happen we need to find that shemen- the hidden cask of oil in our brothers. That fuel that every Jew has, that unites us. That is DNA of our family. That makes us brothers and sisters. When we ignite that spark as we see happening today like never before, then the entire world will join us in our Menora. They will help us rededicate our Temple once again. And then those days will be in our times forever.

 

Have holy hartzigeh Shabbos,

Rabbi Ephraim Schwartz 

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YIDDISH PROVERB OF THE WEEK

“Ganovim un farlibte hobn lib fintsternish.- Thieves and those in love both love darkness.

RABBI SCHWARTZ'S TOUR GUIDE EXAM QUESTION OF THE WEEK

answer below at end of Email

 

17.Another name for the "Big Maktesh" is ___________.

What is the estimated size of the Bedouin population in the Negev?

 

A. 600,000

B. 150,000

C. 300,000

D. 450,000

RABBI SCHWARTZ’S COOL VIDEO OF THE WEEK

 

https://soundcloud.com/ephraim-schwartz/maoz-tzur - It’s not Chanuka without my Rabbi Schwartz Compositions here’

 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Iky-KPl1-Og – Ari Goldwag’s latest Live to Give

 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PAmdS9AnUts   – Maccabeats We’re still here Am Yisrael Chai

 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bSj9pOUJ6tI   -  Y-Studs You can Light with me Chanuka Acapella

 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wXI0CLgK-Ds  - 613 Era-Luiton?

 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=o9PRlr2M4x4   – Dovid Lowy’s amazing new rendition of a Golden Oldie “Don’t hide from Me”

 

  

RABBI SCHWARTZ’S PARSHA PRAYER INSPIRATION OF THE WEEK

 

Thanks and Praise – Chanukah is the holiday which the Rambam and Talmud tells us are all about one thing, and it’s not latkas or doughnuts. Its L’hodot U’l’Halel- to thank and praise Hashem. We will recite Hallel every day, we add in our bentching grace after meals an extra paragraph about Chanuka and the miracles. We say it again and again. I think its understandable to most that there is a concept of saying thank you and showing appreciation. If someone does something for you, then we understand that we “owe him” a big “thank you”.  Yet a whole 8 days of holiday seems like it is carried away. Songs, praises, again and again. Blessings, we seem to be obsessed with the idea. What’s it all about?

 

I remember hearing an incredible speech one about how every country and culture can be identified by its language and vocabulary. For example Italy has a lot fo different words for Pasta. That’s important. Pizza too. In Eskimo language there’s a lot of words for snow. Wet snow, dirty snow, soft snow hard snow. It’s a big deal to them. Americans have a lot of different coffee names. I’m just ana Americano type of guy. In Hebrew or the holy tongue there’s a lot of different words for praise. For thanks for showing appreciation. Take a look at Yishtabach, or the last paragraph of Hallel. There’s about 15 of them. Because that’s what’s important to us. In fact we are called Yehudim- because the tribe of Yehuda was thus named because Leah gave thanks to Hashem on his birth. It’s at the core of our identity.

 

What is praise? What is thanks in Jewish thought? It is us recognizing that Hashem does everything for us. That every moment we are alive is a gift. That gift is our purpose. It motivates us to do something. It makes appreciate that Hashem is standing with us. There are so many I have spoken to over the past month who have witnessed so many miracles. They can’t stop talking about it and they appreciate life differently than they ever did before. We do this ove the entire week of Chanukah, it is the reason why we are saved. It is the oil and fuel we are meant to reveal. This year more than ever, we need to appreciate that.

 

RABBI SCHWARTZ'S ERA’S AND THEIR PLACES AND PEOPLE IN ISRAEL OF THE WEEK

 

The Leper King and Chanuka?!– It’s Chanuka and our thoughts and prayers are for the rebuilding of the Temple and the story of it’s rededication by the Chashmonaim/ Macabees. Fascinatingly enough the Ramban notes that despite the incredible miracle and rejoicnng of the holiday in the year 165 BCE within 50 years the Temple was back to it’s sorry impure state. The children of the Maccabees became Greek again. They assimilated. The defiled it. The essence of their sin, he writes, was that they tried to take too much for themselves. They were Kohanim, their role was to serve in the Temple. It wasn’t to be kings or rulers. The monarchy was always meant to be in the hands and through the descendants of the tribe Yehuda; the house of Dovid Ha’Melech. They took too much for themselves and they didn’t want to give up the power that they achieved in their victory over the Greeks. That was their mistake.

 

Similarly but at the opposite extreme we learn this week about the downfall of Azarya/ Uziya. With his tremendous success and even spiritual revival of the Jewish nation, the increase of the economy, the agriculture, the military achievements and the expansion of our borders, he like the Chashmonaim set his mind up to take more than his portion. To take the role of the Kohanim in the Temple. In Divrey Ha’Yamim it tells us that he entered the Holy of Holies with a pan of incense much to the outrage of the Kohanim. As he stood there while they rebuked him he broke out in Tzara’as a spiritual form of leprosy of which one of its causes is the sin of arrogance. Taken aback he immediately left the Temple, as he was the law mandates for a tamey person. He was taken out of the Old City and he was placed in a place called “Beit Chofshit” and it there he remained until he died.

 

Where is this Beit Chofshit? Fascinatingly enough with this as well there is a Chanuka connection. Jewish tradition places the location by Mt. of Olives in the Kidron valley by a cave and elaborate burial place call the Cave of Beit Chazir right next to Yad Avshalom. It is a burial cave from the 2nd Temple period where the Kohanim of the Chazir family, mentioned in the Talmud as one of the 24 families that would take shifts in the Temple. It is elaborate and tradition has it that it is where the tomb of Zecharia, the Kohen Gadol that was murdered in the Temple in the period of Yoash was buried. As well tradition has it that Uziya’s grave was moved there from the city of David where he was buried, as this was where he lived.

 

Yet the irony is certainly remarkable. Uziya who was the King of Yehudah who tried to usurp the Priesthood from the Kohanim is buried in a tomb of the Chashmonaim, who were priests that tried to usurp the Kingship from Yehudah. The message for us today is that one person can’t do it all in Judaism. We need our brothers. We need to respect and appreciate that we each have different roles. If we do that, the b’yachad ni’natzayach. Together we will overcome the darkness and reveal the light.  

 

RABBI SCHWARTZ'S FUNNY GAZA MEMES/ JOKES OF THE WEEK

 

Never ask a woman her age, A man his salary A Pro-Palestinain activist from which river to Sea and a Palestinian what Al Aktza mosue is built on top of.

 

@MuhammedSimry17 tweet- Bombing has started in Gaza please pray for us.

@benny.wol- Yisgadel V’Yiskadesh Shmei Rabba

 

Gaza Ministry of Health Latest numbers

Total Killed 26,334

22,304 children

4207 women (or dressed as women)

16 men

1 Hamas fighter

76 non-binary/gender fluid/ two-spirit

 

I’m definitely ordering my next phone from Gaza. I mean two months of battery life? Insane

 

For release a senior Hamas Operative responisblie for the on the hour missile launches has been elimanted. He has been identified as Allah Sh’aah (on the hour)

 

If you ever feel helpless remember that the UN still exists.

 

The answer to this week”s question is C – Another week another time I got one half right and half wrong. I wasn’t sure of the other name of the Mactesh Ha’Gadol. I remember it had one and they changed it, but forgot why and what the name was. The answer is Machtesh Yerucham. I think it was changed at the behest of the city of Yerucham to get more tourism there to the actual city near the MAchtesh crater, but I don’t think it worked. Nobody calls it that. On the other hand the Bedouin thing I got right. There are 300,000 of them. Which is a lot. There’s about another 150,000 of them everywhere else in Israel if I recall correctly So another half’and half score making the new score being Rabbi Schwartz at 12 point and the MOT having 4 point on this latest Ministry of Tourism exam.