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Friday, December 6, 2024

The Neg-leg-ted Mitzva- Parshat Vayeitzei 2024 5785

 

Insights and Inspiration

from the

Holy Land

from

Rabbi Ephraim Schwartz

"Your friend in Karmiel"

December 6th 2024 -Volume 14 Issue 6 5th of Kislev 5785

 

Parshat Vayeitzei

 

The Neg-Leg-ted Mitzva

 

I want to describe the most incredible Godly Jewish feeling that I never really appreciated before. It was this week more than ever that it hit me. It’s something that I don’t believe- or to be more accurate, I’m pretty sure most people that I talk to in the States don’t really get. I think it’s a real ma’aseh Satan- the work of the Satan, perhaps his most prevalent job, in trying to prevent many from experiencing. But that’s what I’m here to combat. It’s what I think you need to experience to truly appreciate as well.

 

There are many things that I believe that most of us yidden are longing for when we think and daven for the Beis Ha’Mikdash. We think of the beautiful building. We think of the closeness that we will have to Hashem. The forgiveness that we will be able to achieve. We think of the music which will ring forth from that Temple Mount rather than the whining hate-filled call that echoes from that minaret on the “Golden Pimple” that is desecrating it for too long. We imagine the nations of the world- the entire UN coming to celebrate Hashem and give praise to us His nation. We picture an era of peace, of love, of harmony, of holiness that will rest on the world.

 

One thing that I don’t think that we really imagine or think much about- unless you’re a Kohen or Levi, is the gifts that we have to give to them. Sure, in Israel we know that we can’t eat our fruits or vegetables without taking off the tithes and the teruma today. But that’s really more of a technicality, or level of kashrut for many, as today these are not given to Kohanim, being that we’re not sure about their lineage and a non-verified Kohen is prohibited in eating them. Certainly the notions of giving gifts of meat and animals to the Kohanim from our first born cattle and other meat that we eat, of which a portion is always meant to be given to them is not something any of us really dream about or think about. Yet it’s fascinating, how the truth is, this mitzva of giving away part of EVERY animal to the Kohen is in fact one of those strange anomalies that seems to have disappeared from our nation. Let me explain, and hold on to your hats, arms, legs and steaks…

 

See, despite what many assume, there is a mitzva according to the majority of the halachic authorities from the Mishna through the Talmud including the Rambam, the Rif, and even until modern times that the obligation that the foreleg (Ptcha,your marrow bones, petite tender, minute steaks) the cheek (including tongue) and the stomach are all meant to be given to the Kohen even today. Yup all tongue goes to the Kohen unless he gives it to you.

 

This mitzva as well is not just an Israel or during the Temple mitzva according to many. The Gaon of Vilna thus ruled, as was the Chasam Sofer and pretty much most of the authorities seem to find that to be the best and certainly most praiseworthy if not halachic required practice even today. In the talmud’s time even in the exile that would excommunicate people that didn’t give these gifts FROM EVERY SINGLE COW that was slaughtered, and the custom continued through the times of the Crusades as well in most communities when it slowly started to die out. Rabbis though and community leaders throughout all of our generations decried this. They urged people to keep giving these gifts. And many tried to explain or come up with loopholes to explain why people stopped giving them.

 

See, unlike the tithes the mitzva of the meat gifts to the Kohanim are really not prohibited to non-Kohanim to eat- with the permission of the Kohen. Meaning that the gifts belong to him, but he can share them with non-kohens. Now to eat them without his permission is stealing and invalidating a mitzva in the Torah, but the food is not trayf. That’s how the the loopholes, which many disagree with came about. Some suggest and even today sell part of the cow to kohen or give some monetary compensation, or partner and rely that they belong to a non-Jew and thus it would exempt it from the gifts. Yet it seems that many of the authorities certainly felt that these were loopholes or explanations why we don’t really have to fulfill the mitzva and it’s not a sin that we’re not observing it. Yet certainly most write that it would seem the custom and mitzva should be reinstituted. From what I understand the OU and even the Israeli Rabbinate have tried efforts unsuccessfully to moooove it forward… Sorry couldn’t resist. (Here’s a link to check out some of the sources on this mitzva https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Foreleg,_cheeks_and_maw – but you should at least look it up).

 

It’s fascinating how there are so many chumras and concerns that people have about kashrut in the yeshivishe velt… Chalav Yisrael, mehadrin le’mehadrin, le’mheadrin glatt with fifty hashgachos on it and your steak is dipped in the Mikva before it gets to your plate. Yet this very clear and simple mitzva doesn’t seem to even make it on the plate or meat-board of the average frum consumer. It’s strange. In the little research I’ve done online it seems that there isn’t even one kosher organization that talks about instituting what seems to be very clear that almost all the earlier sources would urge and promise blessings to its observers. Great men such as the ARI’”zl even composed special prayers to recite and that most of klal Yisrael at one point was strict about observing  this even in the diaspora in our exile.

 

Now to be fair, this is definitely not a cheap mitzva to fulfill. According to that wiki link above it would cost about 85 bucks more per cow, coming to a resounding 22 million dollars per year for the Kosher US meat industry. Yet… for the people that are already paying so much for their prime grill and meat-boards and that sacrifice so much for every hiddur in the book, it does seem strange that this is not even really discussed seriously. As I said mayseh Satan, I believe. Yet with us coming closer to the era of Mashiach perhaps Hashem is setting us straight.

 

This past week, more than ever, I felt this mitzva and appreciated it. Like many of the weeks this past year I’ve done Barbeques for our soldiers. It’s not just the BBQ’s though. I offer my tourists, or as I like to say more accurately “war”ists, the experience of giving chizuk to our boys in green who survive off of horrible army rations- which usually consist of tuna fish and canned food for weeks if not months in Gaza and Lebanon, with providing them with these “priestly gifts”. They are our modern day Kohanim. They are doing the service of Hashem and wiping out Amalek. They are putting their lives and giving everything up for us. For Klal Yisrael. For Hashem. For our land. They are as close as we can get to understanding and appreciating what a real Kohen’s job in the Temple was.

 

So it’s not only BBQ’s that we do for them. This week I was with a great friend of mine Shalom, a Chabadnik who for 20 years has been there for our soldiers, and who since the war has started has done over 200 BBQ’s on bases with one of his more recent ventures. He has a food truck and we drive around to bases and give out hotdogs to soldiers with my tourists. Fascinatingly enough, although not surprising there was a longer line for his tzitzis and tefillin stand then there was for the hot dogs. And it wasn’t because the hot dogs weren’t good. They were. But our holy kohanim, with their tattoos and piercings upon being inducted in the army of Hashem have come to understand that they need the light to vanquish the darkness.

 

The next day I was with a yeshiva of 100 guys and we came to a base with my friend Rami. Rami, who before the war was a venture banker, gave it all up to take care of our soldiers during this war as a volunteer. He as well has done hundreds of BBQ’s for our boys. But he does them next level. We had Pirchei Yerushalayim there with us. Steaks, fruit boats, ice cream, dancing and singing to Hashem songs of praise. Songs of victory. 5 minutes drive away from the rubble of Gaza, that they had just blown up, preparing it for our eventual return to our biblical borders the children of Hashem who were dedicated to studying Torah grabbed hands with these holy Kohanim and shared in our joint circles of life.

 

The next day I was with Pinchas and some families from New York. Pinchas worked with Zaaka and in Shura with the bodies and was so traumatized that he decided as well that he needed to bring something to our Kohanim. He needs to give back. He does smaller BBQ’s where my tourists themselves manned the grills. Yanky from Kiryat Gat drove for Hatzala and almost lost his life and realized that this was just one day of his life of experiencing what our soldiers do every day and he as well dedicated himself and his Gerrer friends to do the same.  I visit with Chaim or with Malkie and we make beef Jerky we distribute other times. As long as its meat and it lasts these guys love it.

 

But the best are my Breslav guys Moshe and Dovid from Meah Shearim. They have no patience to get permits to get into bases. They pick up hundreds of sandwiches, schnitzel, shwarma, meat sandwiches and we drove over to the gates of Gaza yesterday with them. The soldiers were in their jeeps, tanks and D9’s heading in and out. Some coming back after weeks and months, others going in not knowing when, and frighteningly if, they will come out. Sadly there’s not too many that we met that haven’t lost a brother in arms from their unit in this terrible war. We popped open our trunk and ran around to these holy Chayalim (and chayalot!) handing out these sandwiches. You should’ve seen the faces on these soldiers. They couldn’t believe that we were there. They were so grateful. They were so hungry. They couldn’t stop thanking us. And we couldn’t stop thanking them.

 

That’s when it hit me. That’s what Matnas Kehuna is really all about. It’s what we’re meant to be feeling. It’s our appreciation for our Kohanim. It’s taking care of the ones that Hashem has appointed to do our service for us. It felt so good to give to them. We felt so connected. So grateful. So united. The shechina was shining down. I was transported to the Beis Ha’Mikdash.

 

This week’s parsha is the story of Yaakov going into exile. It’s the beginning of the 3500 year journey from our land that we still haven’t seen the culmination of yet. It starts with the dream of Yaakov, who left his yeshiva to go out there. It’s the 12 stones fighting for him to lay his head upon them, that unite as he dreams of that ladder that connects heaven and earth. That connection happens when the stones are all bonded as one. It can only happen when that happens. That’s the secret of the dream that he has. He arises and promises Hashem to give maa’ser. To give the tithes. To dedicate his life to building that house of Hashem where we will unite. Where we will bring our gifts.

 

The parsha continues with Yaakov in exile. He meets his wife Rachel and cries when he sees her. Rashi says that it’s because he sees she won’t be buried with him. Rashi who seemingly always usually goes with the simple pshat, whenever it comes to the crying of our Patriarchs and tribes always attributes the crying to something deeper. It says Yosef cried on Binyamin’s shoulders because he is mourning the temple and Mishkan that will be destroyed. Our Patriarchs cry because they see that the journey of exile is so long. It won’t end fast. Yaakov upon meeting Rachel sees she won’t be buried with him because she must stay and cry and be there for her children in exile. That we return. That we finally build a home. That we can give the gifts as she did selflessly to her sister.

 

 That gift of giving her husband and beloved to her sister is  mind-blowingly the foundation on which all of Israel is born. Only because Rachel gave Leah to Yaakov did the tribes come into existence. They were barren. Leah would’ve married Esau. Yet, because of Rachel’s gift the children of Leah were born. Leah’s gift of her maidservant Zilpa to Yaakov gave birth to two other tribes. Rachel did the same. It’s amazing. It’s unity. It’s how we were born as a nation. Our DNA is a sense of undeserved-ness. Of gratitude. Of appreciating that only through giving to one another can we bring the shechina into the world. Can we have the light of Hashem come down that ladder and shine.

 

Think about all of the names of the tribes. They’re all about developing that sensitivity. Reuvein- Hashem has seen. Shimon- He has heard. Levi- my spouse will accompany me. And of course Yehuda- gratefulness. We’re all called Yehudim because that’s our essence. The name Yehuda has the name of Hashem yud- hei and vav hei in it. The reason is because at our core when we show that gratitude for life for those that bring us into the world. For those that sacrifice for us, then we are revealing Hashem. We have connected with Him. The birth of the tribes this week conclude with Yosef being born; the last of the tribes to be born in exile- as Binyamin is born in Israel. He is named with Rachels’ prayer Hashem should give her another son. Let me continue to praise You. Bring us home. Take away our shame. Our fighting. Bring the tribes together. Bring us home.

 

It’s been 427 days of this war. It’s been exhausting. Our Kohanim are still fighting. We entered the month of Kislev. Chanuka is coming soon. Can you smell the doughnuts and Latkas. Chanuka is the holiday when the soldiers that rededicated and purified the Temple were the Kohanim. The priests took up swords and got on tanks and waged war. Jewish priests don’t sit in monasteries. They fight for us. They give it all for us. 2500 years later we celebrate those Kohanim each Chanuka. We talk about the miracles Hashem preforms through those Kohanim. Do you want those miracles again? They’re happening. The kohanim today in green will tell you about them, when you visit them. But you need to visit. You need to bring them gifts. You need to really really want that Temple experience. You need to bring them steaks and gifts. The Satan is hoping you won’t. Chamas and Iran are as well. But we know who’s team we’re on.

 

It’s hard to believe that we and you who are not priests, are not soldiers, may not even be living here can actually do something. But it’s so not true. Your coming, your hugs, your gifts, your donations, your letters, your love and appreciation is what binds those rocks under their heads at night together. It’s been too long that we haven’t had that mitzva of giving beef to our boys. The neg-LEG-ted mitzva of that cow’s foot is back again. May we soon merit to give it to them in our Bais Hamikdash to all of our Kohanim as well.

 

Have a grateful delicious Shabbos,

Rabbi Ephraim Schwartz 

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This week's Insights and Inspiration is dedicated by the Shutyak family with gratitude to Hashem in honor the bris of their grandson Yonatan Shlomo, to Chana Feiga and Moshe Horowitz and the Bar mitzva of their son Yehuda Goel this Shabbos. May Hashem continue to bless us with only nachas and Simchas amongst all of Klal Yisrael!

 

 

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I would as well like to personally express my appreciation and the appreciation of the many soldiers and so many needy families whom I have been privileged to bring food, Chizuk, supplies and of course love and Ruach to the past two weeks and since the war has started.

As I’ve mentioned to many that have contacted me I am not running a campaign to raise money for this cause. I feel it is a personal privilege and the minimum I can do help these young men that are standing on the front lines of our nation. I however am more than happy to serve as an agent or shaliach for any of you that feel similarly and would like to send some love to these boys as well.  This is not a short war as our pundits and generals tell us and this is not a one time partnership. It’s week after week and really day after day that I try to do my part to visit the many bases and posts as I can and bring them stuff.

Each week I will post here the names of those that have participated and whom the soldiers have asked me to express their appreciation back to for your love for them.

This week I’d like to thank to the Kagan Family, the Nadoff Family, The Abramchiks, The Rodins, Yeshiva Reishit Yerushalayim, The Zuckers and Goldsteins, The Weinstocks, Millers Tessler and Friedmans, The Chopps, Grosses, Momo!, Yaki! Meir Fogel, Orah Rosenblatt, The Ellmans. You guys are all amazing!

You all have no idea how much koach this gives to our chayalim! Thank you for giving me the zechus to be part of it. And they have made me their messenger to say thank you to you!

For those of you that wish to have me deliver on your behalf this chizuk to our brave chayalim and chayalot- Pizza, hot meals, Mike and Ikes ( they love those!) Cigerrettes, Nosh, energy bars and just lots of love that I’m in the mood to bring them. You can donate US TAX DEDUCTIBLE RIGHT HERE and HELP OUR BOYS!!

https://interland3.donorperfect.net/weblink/weblink.aspx?name=E343033&id=50

 

If you’d like to watch and be part of the fun vicariously you can as well send me your number and I’m happy to add you to my contacts and you can then have access to my daily statuses where I post them!

 

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YOUNG ISRAEL OF KARMIEL

SHABBOS DAVENING SCHEDULE

 

SHABBOS VAYEITZEI

CANDLELIGHTING 4:04 PM

MINCHA KABBALAS SHABBOS-4:20 PM

SHACHARIS- 8:30 AM

Final time for Kriyat Shema- 8:59 AM

MINCHA- 3:50 PM

MARIV-5:22 PM -10 minutes after tzeitz

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YIDDISH PROVERB OF THE WEEK

 

“Laig nit op oif morgen vos du kenst heint bazorgen.” -Don’t put off for tomorrow what you can do today.

 

RABBI SCHWARTZ'S TOUR GUIDE EXAM QUESTION OF THE WEEK

answer below at end of Email

 

31. Members of the Samaritan community identify the site of the binding of Isaac at______.

During which period was the text of the Amidah Prayer determined?

A)  First Temple

B) Second Temple

C) Mishnaic

D)  Talmudic

 

RABBI SCHWARTZ’S COOL VIDEO OF THE WEEK

 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BX_ge12oF10    – What a great new song Aharon Razel- Bo naaseh Nigun- a song never heard…

 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s5A9UamEl6c- Amazing story of the Unit that Killed Sinwar!

 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Gsv9QgP2Wms    – Amazing Duet Avraham Fried and Ishay Ribbo- Ki Anu Amecha

 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p5dD5yjdbtU     – Shulem Lemmer MaMa Ruchel

 

RABBI SCHWARTZ'S ERA’S AND THEIR PLACES AND PEOPLE IN ISRAEL OF THE WEEK

 

King Yoshiya- 621BC – In the 18th year of the reign of Yoshiyahu with the Teshuva movement in full force and the Jewish nation getting on the right page, he turned his eyes to the Temple. It was time to get things fixed up there. It had been over 200 years since the last major renovation program in the times of Yehoash. That’s a long time. As well with all of the desecration of Achaz, Menashe and Amon and all of the lousy kings it had fallen in to deep disarray. It was time for Shiputzim. But that’s not cheap and the kingdom was in no great financial situation. Where will the money come from.

 

Fasccinatingly enough there was money that was pretty much being untouched sitting right there in the Temple. Yehoash, if you remember had established the first Pushka in Klal Yisrael in the Temple where people would deposit donations, and vows that they made over there. Some of the money was repossessed by corrupt Kohanim and Kings, yet much of it was just sitting there. Pretty amazing. Yoshiyahu learning of this sent a message to the High Priest Chikliya to check it out and to start putting it to work. They hired quarrying men, woodchoppers. The whole temple was being renovated. It was Chanuka (conceptually) and we read it about in this month in this column… See no coincidences here.

 

During those renovations they went to fix the Holy of Holies. There they found something that was amazing. Something that they hadn’t seen for years. It’s imcomprehenisble to us, but that amazing find was none other than a Torah scroll. Yup, a Torah scroll that hadn’t been seen in a very long time. What was this scroll?

 

It seems that there is a lot of debate about this scroll. How can it be that there was no Torah scroll in the entire Jewish nation. That not one person should have a Torah scroll! How can that be… Yet there are many commentaries that write that in fact all the scrolls had been destroyed and the law and Torah had been forgotten from Israel back in the times of King Achaz. It’s hard to wrap our brains around that, but it seems to be the simple understanding of the text and story. This Torah scroll was the only one that was saved because it was the original one that Moshe had wrote. It was hidden there in the Holy of Holies. Others suggest that perhaps this was hidden during Menashe’s reign when the Torahs were all taken out and the name of Hashem deleted from them. Both of these opinions do state that Torah was still being studied, yet it was the oral traditions rather then from the written law and there was no Torah reading done at all amongst the Jewish people.

 

Now not everyone takes this approach. There are some that disagree and suggest that there were certainly those that secretly had Torah scrolls and read from them privately. What made this find significant was that this was the scroll of Moshe or alternatively that it was miraculously opened to words of rebuke. Whatever way you take this. This becomes a monumental moment for King Yoshiyahu. He hears about this find and decides it’s time to go to the next level. What happens next? Stay tuned….

 

RABBI SCHWARTZ'S FUNNY TERRIBLE BBQ JOKES OF THE WEEK

 You know that mouth-watering sensation you get when you're grilling a steak on the BBQ? I wonder if vegans get that when they mow the lawn.

 

 What’s a librarians favorite thing to bring to a BBQ? A shush kebab

 

 What happened to the cannibal that showed up late for BBQ? He got the cold shoulder.

 

 I was at a barbecue party when a cow from a nearby farm charged me and chased me into a corner. It was at that moment I realized my life was at steak

 

 Why couldn't the monkey use the barbecue? He wasn't a grill'a

 

 Why didn't the cannibal BBQ his victim's feet at the picnic? He wanted to enjoy his meal without the mesquite toes

 

 What do you call a BBQ pun? A meataphor

 

My friends invited me to barbecue night yesterday. I said no but now I'm regretting it. That was a missed steak.

 

 Why did he skeleton go to the barbecue? To get another rib.

 

 What do you call a group of men waiting for a haircut? A barbecue.

 

 How do you know you're at a Chinese Barbeque? The hot dogs are real.

 

Sometime in the 1970s, on an absolutely freezing day, a shipment of meat arrives in a town in the Soviet Union. The townspeople, bundled to their eyeballs, line up outside the town store to wait to be given their rations. After about an hour, a man comes out of the store and announces, "Comrades, I'm sorry to tell you, but there isn't enough meat for everyone, so the Jews have to leave." The Jews in the line leave grumbling.

 

About an hour later, the man comes out of the store and announces, "Comrades, I'm sorry to tell you this, but there isn't enough meat for everyone, so anyone who is not a member of the Communist party will have to leave." More grumbling as the non-Party members depart.

 

Another hour goes by and the man comes out of the store again and announces, "Comrades, I'm sorry to tell you this, but there isn't enough meat for everyone in the line, so anyone who wasn't a member of the Party before 1956 has to leave." More grumbling as all the younger Party members leave. A few old people remain in the line.

Another hour goes by. It's now getting dark and it's cold. The same man comes out of the store and announces, "Comrades, I'm sorry to tell you this, but there isn't any meat. Go home."

One old lady in the line turns to her neighbor and says, "See? It's like I told you. The Jews always get the best treatment ..."

 

 A pig, a cow, and a chicken walk into a barbecue. The End

 

 And finally What do you call a Jewish clegyman that barbecues? A Ribeye. OYYYY!***************************************

 

The answer to this week”s question is C – Finally! An easy one that I got right entirely. I really needed this one. So the first part was easy. The Shomronim who are still on Mt. Gerizim today or as they call it Har Bracha is where they believe the Temple Mount was and the binding of Yitzchak. They still have a temple there today. And the second part as well was pretty easy, although despite in this weeks parsha we discuss Yaakov who “established” the last of the three daily prayers Mariv by his dream of the ladder. Yet, the actual 18 blessings format we have of Shemona Esrei was established by the Men of the Great Assembly in the Mishna period, after the firstTemple was destroyed. During the Beis Hamikdash we had sacrifices. Our prayers are in place of that. Hopefully we have them back soon again!  So new score is  Rabbi Schwartz having 20 points and the MOT having 11 points on this latest Ministry of Tourism exam so far…

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Friday, November 26, 2021

A Spin on Dreidel- Parshat Vayeishev/ Chanukah I

 Insights and Inspiration

from the

Holy Land

from

Rabbi Ephraim Schwartz

"Your friend in Karmiel"

November 27th 2021 -Volume 11 Issue 9 22nd Kislev 5782

 

Parshat Vayeishev

 

A Spin on Dreidel


It's an ancient tradition that we try to observe. We light our menoras, we have Chanukah parties, we sing holiday songs, and even compose a few and of course we eat latkas and being in Israel jelly doughnuts. And there is of course dreidel. Now perhaps when we were kids this custom was fun as we sat around spun our sevivon / top and counted out pennies from the pot. The tradition has that it began when the Greeks forbade us from learning Torah, the Jews would secretly study and when the Greeks would come in they would hide their books and pretend to be playing dreidel. Although that may be the source, it seems that the custom to play is only a few hundred years old or so. But that's good enough for me.


Now pennies or even shekels and spinning tops were just not going to cut it for my chevra in yeshiva. It was too childish and no fun or challenge. So it seems the yeshiva world- although some of our Rebbeim would probably protest at us hijacking that distinguished title, came up with other alternatives to fulfill the concept. The dreidel became a deck of cards and the game was given some name that had some chassidic spiritual mystical element to it; Kvittlach. In reality I believe that it's just yeshivisheh blackjack. Poker, with some herring thrown in for good measure. It involved some money changing hands. But everyone knows that Chanukah gelt is a mitzva, right? I guess the only connection that it had with the original custom was that when the Rebbeim would walk in they would hide the cards and money and pull out a sefer and pretend to be studying. So it's almost like the real thing.


I personally was never a gambler. Probably because any gelt that I did have I used to buy sufganiyot and shwarmas. I tried learning the kvittlach game once but it was beyond me. I still have no clue what an elevaroon is. Maybe an elevated macaroon? Instead I went to visit my good friend in more of a "fun" yeshiva. Those were "my 'other' boys". My yeshiva was where I would learn. Theirs was where I would go when I needed to get away for a bit.


 It was late at night, after seder of course, when I arrived there. My buddy Yanky was sitting down with some of my friends discussing the Chanukah night activity for the evening. These were not kvittlach people. The typical card games were too lame. One of them finally came up with a great idea. Monopoly! Now I was a big board game person. Risk, Stratego, chess, games that required using our yeshivish noggin and beating someone else with our incredible strategies. Conquering the world, killing kings capturing flags. We were good at that. Monopoly is a luck and throw of the dice game. What's the kuntz?

The boys smiled at me and pulled out the game. They replaced the monopoly bills right away with shekels. Now I know that shekels are painted to look like monopoly money. I tell my tourists so that it's that they shouldn't confuse it with real money. Otherwise your typical American could get sticker shock hearing repeatedly that it's 100's of shekel for this and for that. But once you realize it's not real money, it's only shekels then it's not so bad.


But this was different. Monopoly with real money, albeit shekels is a totally different game. Do I buy this? Do I build? All of a sudden these question have real financial consequences! Hmmm. It sounded interesting. Not having any money, I sat down to watch (Ok maybe I chucked in a few shekels…Shhh…). The game became more and more intense as the night wore on. The trading got heavy, the arguments and under the table deals were heating up. And all of a sudden…Boom, the door opened.


 In front of us stood Rabbi G., the Rosh yeshiva. Now this was not my yeshiva. I wasn't too worried. But, it was still scary watching his face as he took in the scene before his eyes. He looked at Yanky with a stern glare and asked him what was going on. Without batting an eye Yanky turned to his Rosh Yeshiva and told his Rebbe,


"Can you believe this? He wants me to trade him Pacifc and Atlantic for Mediterranean and Park Place., what does Rebbe have to say about that?"


I will never forget Rabbi G.'s expression and response. He looked at Yanky. He understood his boys. He knew when to fight 'em, when to hold 'em and when to fold 'em.


"What!" Rabbi G. said, "Mediterranean?! Even Kollel guys don't live on Mediterranean…!" and with that he walked out and left as if he didn't see a thing.


Oy…. Those were the days. I think Yanky got his schmooze on the evils of gambling the next day, but in my opinion the wisdom, self-control and wit of that Rebbe, taught me an even more important lesson. One has to see the big picture of connecting with your students over losing it all over a game of monopoly. It's a lesson I will never forget.


It's Chanuka this week, My Chanuka box is out with all my Chanukah paraphernalia. Menora, silver polish, candles wicks, oils, and Happy Hanukah signs and of course dreidels. What is the deeper concept behind this dreidel? Now we know that there are four letters Nun Gimmel, Shin and Hey or Pey, which stand for Neis Gadol Haya Sham - A great miracle happened there or alternatively Po-here. The difference of course is depending on if you are playing in Israel or the Diaspora. Although I understand that Satmar and some other-shall we call them "not-pro-Zionist" of our brethren-don't use the "peh-here" ones even in Israel either. They claim it’s a Zionist invention. Although a gambling game of spin-the Jewish-top would seem like a lame place to start declaring religious indignation about foreign secular influences. But hey... I would never crash anyone's fun or party as Rabbi G taught me.



But the truth is that there is something sacred about the dreidel spinning game. There were great Rabbis like the students of the Baal Shem Tov, the Chasam Sofer, and I've been told that even (lbl'ch) Reb Chaim Kanievsky has mentioned that his father the Steipler played dreidel with them as children. It's fascinating that when they went through the concentration camps storehouses where they Nazi's kept the items they confiscated from the Jews many dreidels were found. It seems that the Jews who were limited by what they could bring with them to these camps, somehow felt the dreidel was something to bring. One can imagine the clandestine games in their barracks late at night. They may not have been able to light a menora, but at least they had something to remind them of the miracles of old and to give them faith that it could happen again.

There are many different insights about the dreidel game. The Bnai Yissachar sees it as the difference between Chanuka and Purim. Whereas on Purim we spin the gragger from bottom, Chanuka the dreidel is pun from the top (excuse the spun…oyyy). On Chanuka the miracle came openly from Hashem. It was clear that He was running the show. The Jews did not merit redemption or the miracle as most of them had assimilated. Hashem had to spin that dreidel from above. On Purim we fasted, we prayed and we repented. We were the ones turning that Divine grogger. We made the noise and Hashem in kind responded.

Rebbi Nachman of Breslav has an incredible insight into the dreidel game though. He notes that the dreidel is like life. We spin and we spin and we fall. Sometimes when we fall we are gadol- we are great we win. Other times we are Nun- nisht nothing. Sometimes we pay, sometimes we lose half, but yet we pick ourselves up and spin again. Sometimes it's our turn and the next spin it could be my neighbors and other game players turn. Life is constantly spinning and we are constantly waiting to see where it will fall. Some spins are longer and some are shorter. The one thing that unites all of the players though, is when the top is turning you can't see the letters. When it is spinning around and around they all look like one. That is the message we are meant to internalize about our lives. We are all on a dreidel and we are all part of the miracle. Today's shin could be tommorow's gimmel.


The parsha that we read this week before Chanuka Vayeishev (and you thought I'd forgotten about this part of the E-Mail…shame) is also like a dreidel and completes this message. The Rokayach notes that almost every single verse in the parsha begins with the letter vav, which translates as "and". And this… and that… and this… and he came… and he settled …and he went… It’s a parsha on the move. It's a parsha that is constantly spinning. The vav is like that little handle on the top of the dreidel that Hashem is spinning. Yosef is the favorite child. He got a colored coat. He got the first gimmel. But then he is thrown down in a pit. He falls. Shin. Yaakov is settled and happy. Gimmel. He falls in mourning for his kidnapped son. Shin Reuvein is the oldest, and he loses his position, Yehuda is the leader and he falls. Tamar is on the bottom and then she rises up. They all ultimately rise again. It's one continuation. They're all spinning. It's ironic that the parsha is called Vayeishev- and he settled because no one seems settled after the first verse. But the Torah is not ironic. It is settled like our dreidel. It falls, but then rises and spins again.


Do you know how many verses don’t start with vav in the parsha? Eight. Yup. Eight days of Chanuka. Interestingly enough there is another book that also has every verse besides eight that start with the connecting letter vav that unites it all together; that is spinning the entire story. It is the book of Ruth. There as well, people are rising and falling. Elimelech, and his two sons are the leaders and they flee Israel and ultimately intermarry and die. Naomi who was once the big Rebbetzin comes back as a pauper. Rus is a former princess and she now is begging for wheat and charity. It's an amazing story. But the end of that story is the birth of the grandfather of King David; the beginning of the messianic line.


That messianic line of King David had its start in our parsha. The beginning of the driedel game started already centuries before with Yehuda and Tamar the ancestors of Boaz. The great miracle is happening here. Do you know what the gematria of Nun Gimmel Shin and Hey is? 358. Do you know what else has that same gematria? Mashiach.


The top is spinning. This Sunday night we will light our menoras. We will sing Maoz Tzur. It's a song about all of our exiles. We start with Egypt, we go through Bavel, Chanuka and Purim. We conclude with the final exile that we are still in and ask Hashem to bring Mashiach. Then we pull out our dreidel and watch it spin in the glow of those candles. May the dreidel of Klal Yisrael finally land on that winning letter. We want the gantzeh pot. It's time for the Nes Gadol.

Have a winning Shabbos and a Happy Chanuka

Rabbi Ephraim Schwartz

 

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" “Ainem’s mazel iz an anderen’s shlemazel."– One’s good luck is another’s misfortune.."

 

RABBI SCHWARTZ'S TOUR GUIDE EXAM QUESTION OF THE WEEK

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4) According to the resolution for the partition of the Land of Israel, Nahariya was to be in the territory of the _____ State.

The partition proposal was put to a vote at the UN following the recommendation of:

a) The Jewish Agency (ha’sochnut ha’yehudit)

b) The Arab Higher Committee

c) UNSCOP

d) Recommendation of the great powers - the Soviet Union and the USA

 

RABBI SCHWARTZ’S COOL VIDEO OF THE WEEK

https://soundcloud.com/ephraim-schwartz/al-hanissim   – Chanukah is coming time to enjoy your favorite Rabbi Schwartzes Chanuka compositions here's my Al Hanissim

 

https://soundcloud.com/ephraim-schwartz/haneiros-halalu- And of course my haneiros halalu… we'save the chasof for next week.


https://youtu.be/NinkEVhCmc4 - Nissim Blacks latest song and video "Change" the man is mamash the holiest rap star I know

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jiskf_lZXv8   – Tis the season once again traditional Chanukah acapella musical knockoffs songs this is West Side Story by Six13

 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Kd_vS0IINIE  - "Illuminating" by Maccabeats

  

RABBI SCHWARTZ'S PARSHA/SHABBOS CONNECTION OF THE WEEK

 

The Super Power of the day- Parshat Vayeishev- This week's Torah portion introduces us to Yosef and all the ordeals and challenges that he went through, the pinnacle of which our sages tell us is that "test" that he had in avoiding the temptation and seduction of the wife of his master Potifar. The Medrash tells us that Yosef has told Hashem, that his father Yaakov underwent challenges and tests as did Avraham and he seemed to be having an easy life. As a result Hashem responded that he would give him an even greater challenge than they ever went through and thus the story begins. Lesson one. Be careful what you ask for in life.

 

What made the challenges of our ancestors so difficult the sefarim tell us is that Hashem to a large degree upped the ante of their Yetzer Harah to the point it where it really was almost unhumanly possible to resist. For example by Avraham when Hashem told him to take his child whom he loved for a sacrifice, Hashem increased Avraham's love for Yitzchak so much it was almost impossible to go through with the command. Similarly when Yosef was being seduced again and again and again by this woman, Hashem removed all his natural inhibitions and increased his desire to such a degree that it was too difficult to pass up.

 

How then did Yosef survive? So the Divrei Shmuel suggests that the Torah reveals this to us by telling us when this happened. It says Vayehi ka'hayom ha'zeh- and it was like this day, when the final temptation took place. The Midrash there says, what day was it? You guessed it/ None other than Shabbos Kodesh. Why is this so significant? Because on Shabbos, he tells us, a Jew is given extra super spiritual powers to lift themselves up from the bottom and rise to places that one could never reach during the regular weekdays. Shabbos, is when the entire world is elevated. We can make even the mundane holy and special. How? Because Shabbos possesses that super-power and energy into a Jew that connects him so close to our Creator that no forces of evil have and weight.

 

It was from Shabbos that Yosef was able to tap into and overcome his yetzer harah and run out of the house. In the same way that Hashem tells Avraham who thought he could not have children that he needs to go outside and count the stars. They are both things that happen outside. Outside of the physical world, outside of the normal constraints of nature and human capability. Leave the physical world and enter the Shabbos world. There the rules and game changes. There every Jew can rise up from the ashes. And thus each Shabbos when we sing Lecha Dodi we repeat this theme. His'naari his'o'reri- shake off the world, awaken and shine that light. It is the super power of Shabbos.

  

RABBI SCHWARTZ'S ERA’S AND THEIR PLACES AND PEOPLE IN ISRAEL OF THE WEEK

 

Unfinished Business end of Yoav- 837 BC- Shlomo Ha'Melech tried to be a nice guy when he inherited the reigns from Dovid by sparing his brother Adoniyahu, but sometimes a kings gotta do what a kings gotta do. And with Adoniyahu's attempted coup by asking Batsheva to give him Dovid's maid servant Avishag who kept him warm at night as his wife, he knew that there were still forces that unless they were taken care of would always be a thorn in his side. And thus he orders his loyal servant Benayahu ben Yehoyada to kill Adoniyahu, and he does. One down. Two more left to go in Shlomo's eyes.

 

The second person on his hit list was Aviathar the Kohen who had backed Adnoniyahu. Here unlike Adoniyahu, Shlomo had mercy. Aviathar was faithful and loyal to Dovid. As well, he was the only surviving Kohen from the city of Nov that Shaul had destroyed while he was seeking to Dovid who hid there. So Shlomo felt that to a large degree a bit of guilt over the death of their family as it was because they were seeking his father Dovid that the entire city was killed. Thus Shlomo ordered that Aviathar would be banished to his home city of Anatot. Today the city of Anatot is located off of Highway 60 near the valley that runs down to Nachal Perat. Those that do that incredible water hike can see where the arab village of Anata still stands. Incidentally that is also the city where the prophet Yirmiyahu was from.

 

Finally the last person to be dealt with was Dovid's former general and nephew, Yoav. Yoav had taken matters into his hands too many times. Killing his cousin Ammasa and Shaul's general Avner and now once again he had supported and encouraged Adoniyahu in his rebellion. Shlomo orders Benayahu to kill him, however Yoav seeing the writing on the wall runs to the Altar and grabs on to its corners and refuses to leave claiming that the Altar will protect him and not thinking that Shlomo would carry forth his decree in such a holy place. He was wrong.

 

Where was this altar and why didn't it protect him. Different midrashim suggest that it was not in the Temple, which had not been built yet obviously and it was located in either Shilo or Givon. Only the altar in the Temple had the power to afford sanctuary. The ones in the temporary location didn’t have that power. Regardless Shlomo gives the order and Yoav is killed there and his body is buried in the Midbar/ wilderness. The once proud general will not have a tomb that anyone would or could visit. Next week Shlomo' malchus really starts.

 

RABBI SCHWARTZ’S TERRIBLE DREIDEL GAMBLING JOKES OF THE WEEK

 

What did the father dreidel say to his daughter when he came home from work and found her still in the shower? What! You're still not dry and ready?


What did the dreidel tell the doctor? I've been having these dizzy spells

Q: What do you call Hanukkah gelt that you gamble with? A: Chocolate chips. 

Q: Did you hear about the two dreidels that fell in love? A: They met at a spin class. 

Q: How did the dreidel feel about calling in sick? A: He felt a little gelty.


"My son is something else," Mrs. Finkelstein told her friend. "He traveled to Las Vegas last week in a $25,000 car and returned a few days later in a $100,000 vehicle."

"Wow! He won that much money?" her friend replied. "He must really know how to gamble."

"Well, not really," said the mother. "He went in our car, but had to return by bus."

 

When Rivkah was called up for jury service, she asked the judge whether she could be excused.

"I don’t believe in capital punishment," she said, "and I wouldn’t want my views to prevent the trial from running its proper course".

The judge liked her thoughtfulness but had to tell her that she was perfectly suitable to serve on the jury.

"Madam," he explained, "This is not a murder trial, it's just a simple civil lawsuit. Mrs F is bringing this case against her husband because he gambled away the entire $25,000 he had promised her for her birthday so that she could carry out a make-over on her kitchen."

"OK," said Rivkah, "I'll join your jury - I could be wrong about capital punishment after all."


A rabbi, a minister, and a priest were playing poker when the police raided the game.

Turning to the priest, the lead police officer said, "Father Murphy, were you gambling?"

Turning his eyes to heaven, the priest whispered, "L*rd, forgive me for what I am about to do." To the police officer, he then said, "No, officer; I was not gambling."

The officer then asked the minister, "Pastor Johnson, were you gambling?"

Again, after an appeal to heaven, the minister replied, "No, officer; I was not gambling."

Turning to the rabbi, the officer again asked, "Rabbi Goldstein, were you gambling?"

Shrugging his shoulders, the rabbi replied, "With whom?

 

Moishe meets Arnold at their social club and asks how Abe’s funeral went the other day.

"It went OK, Moishe," replied Arnold, "but at the end of the Rabbi’s eulogy, I had to try and stop myself from laughing aloud."

"Why was that?" asks Moishe.

"Well," says Arnold, "throughout his marriage to Miriam, she was always telling me what a mean man he was. He never had a steady job and the money he brought home to her wasn't enough for food and clothing, let alone holidays. Yet he drank heavily and often stayed out all night gambling. Altogether, a good husband he was not. But at the funeral, the Rabbi spoke of how wonderful the deceased was - so considerate, so beloved, so thoughtful to others. Then, when the Rabbi had finished, I heard Miriam say to one of her children, "Do me a favour, David, go see whether it’s your father in the coffin."



Rabbi Bloom gets on the train and as soon as the doors close, a priest gets up, goes over to the rabbi and says, "Good morning rabbi. I have a question to ask you. Why is it that everybody thinks Jews are smarter than Gentiles?"

Rabbi Bloom, who is not up for an argument, says, "I’m sorry, but I am just a simple rabbi and I’m not really able to participate in such a discussion."

But the priest insists. "Look, no harm meant rabbi, but I have a theory and I need to test it out in the form of a bet. I’ll pay you $100 if you can ask me a question that I can't answer. But if I can ask you a question that you can't answer, you must pay me $100."

Rabbi Bloom replies, "But I’m a poor rabbi - I only have $10 on me."

The priest hesitates then says, "OK, rabbi, it’s my $100 against your $10."

Rabbi Bloom realises he can't get out of this so he agrees, but on condition that he asks the first question. The priest agrees.

"OK," says Rabbi Bloom, "what animal has scaly skin, the body of a cat, the face of a squirrel, the ears of a mouse, webbed toes and swims under water?"

Surprised, the priest admits that he doesn't know and asks the rabbi for a few more minutes to think about it. The rabbi agrees.

2 minutes later, the priest takes $100 from his wallet and gives it to the rabbi. The priest then asks the rabbi, "So what animal was it?"

Rabbi Bloom replies, "How should I know?" and gives the priest $10.

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Answer is C – So my first wrong answer on this exam. Well, no entirely wrong. I did know that UNSCOP the United Nation something Commission of (on?) Palestine were the ones that prepared the Partition Plan. But I actually thought that Nahariya was included in Israel's portions as it was a Jewish city. However had I thought about it for a few seconds I would've remembered that the top of the upper Western Galile was in Arab hands and so the original plan it was meant to be part of the Arab State. So another I guess it's 50/50 on this one leaving the score at Schwartz 3.5 and .5 for MOT (Ministry of Tourism) on this exam. .